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Mastering the Fire: Learning to Feel Anger Without Letting It Burn Everything Down
Paperback
Series: Pathlight Youth, Book 2
Child PsychologyCognitionSelf-Help
Publisher Price: $29.99
Publisher: Buildingblocs Publishing
Published: Apr 4 2026
Pages: 128
Weight: 0.69
Height: 0.27 Width: 8.50 Depth: 11.00
Language: English
Mastering the Fire
Learning to Feel Anger Without Letting It Burn Everything Down
- Book 2
Your anger is real. So is your power to master it.
Mastering the Fire is Book 2 in the Pathlight Youth series-a raw, practical guide for justice-impacted and system-involved youth who are tired of exploding, shutting down, or pretending not to care. Created by Aaron B. Kershaw, this second installment dives deep into anger, resentment, and the lies we've been taught about strength and control.
This is not about managing your emotions. It's about understanding them.
Learning to use fire without getting burned.
Building discipline without losing your voice.
In this book, you'll:
Learn why anger is a secondary emotion-and what's underneath it
Discover the cycle of triggers, actions, and choices
Get real tools to help you check your fire in real-time
Explore the stories and systems that shaped your reactions
Reflect on where your heat comes from-and where you want it to go
Each chapter includes:
Uncle Aaron moments: honest, hard-earned mentorship
Fire tools: emotional and mental self-checks
Real-life examples of youth who learned to shift
Self-guided exercises to take control of your heat
A Fire Profile project that helps you reclaim your story
This book is for:
Youth who are justice-impacted or on the edge of major decisions
Reentry and mentoring programs
Group facilitators and educators using social-emotional learning
Teens who are tired of hurting others-or themselves
Fire can destroy. Or it can shape steel. It's up to you.
Book 2 gives you the tools to feel your anger-and not let it run your life.
Part of the Pathlight Series by BuildingBlocs Academy.
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