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Grow: Get Rid Of Old Ways: The Field Manual for Those Done Waiting for Permission
Paperback
ManagementGeneral EducationSelf-Help
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Nov 26 2025
Pages: 164
Weight: 0.50
Height: 0.35 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
If you're still negotiating with your excuses, this book is the end of the conversation.
GROW: Get Rid Of Old Ways is the field manual for thinkers who are tired of rearranging their fears and calling it progress. It cuts through psychological clutter with surgical wit, philosophical discipline, and the kind of clarity that refuses to apologise for itself.
Drawing upon educational psychology, behavioural science, stoicism, and leadership insight, Carl Halford constructs a four-part ascent:
Part I - Dissection:
See your habits, stories, and self-deceptions clearly enough that they can no longer hide behind sentimentality.
Part II - Decision:
Replace hesitation with motion. Stop negotiating for perfect conditions. Build habits that survive pressure, distraction, and emotion.
Part III - Defiance:
Learn the discipline of authentic refusal - the art of swimming politely but persistently against cultural currents that dilute identity.
Part IV - Dominion:
Courage, responsibility and consequence converge. This is where ownership stops being motivational vocabulary and becomes a personal economy.
Packed with CHKZ Katana Insights, Quiet Katanas, Strategy Banks, and the hallmark Reflect - Reset - Refocus hubs, this book blends humour, philosophy, and practical psychology without a single wasted sentence.
If you want comfort, read something else.
If you want clarity, courage, and motion - start here.
Growth begins where your old ways stop pretending to be necessary.
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