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Everyone Assumed You Knew: Twelve Disciplines for Leading When the Way We Work Changes
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Publisher Price: $19.99
Publisher: Standard Bearer Press
Published: Jul 30 2026
Pages: 190
Weight: 0.58
Height: 0.40 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Everyone assumed you knew.
When your organization transformed, the teams got the training. The coaches got the certifications, the walls got new charts, the meetings got new names. Nobody told you your job had changed. Nobody handed you a map. You were thrown in the deep end with a deck, a deadline, and a nod - and you've been winging it ever since: nodding in the right places, looking up the vocabulary after the meeting, projecting a calm you didn't feel. And when the change stalled, the industry had a name ready for your layer. The frozen middle. As if you froze yourself.
This is not a book of excuses; leaders own their share of every stalled change, and this one will put plenty on your plate. It's about a simpler, harder fact: the people asked to lead a transformation are usually the only ones never prepared for it. Whether you're a first-time CEO or leading your first team, that gap is real, it is common, and until now nobody built anything for it.
The old model of leadership - direct, approve, control, solve, oversee - no longer fits. But the alternative is too often misunderstood as stepping back and letting autonomous teams figure it out. Both fail. When leaders retreat, silos form, turf wars grow, authority blurs and decisions stall. When leaders clamp down, they simply rebuild the old organization underneath the language of the new one. Transformation requires neither less leadership nor more traditional leadership. It requires a different kind of leadership, and one question runs underneath all of it: what does the right amount of leadership, mixed with the right amount of autonomy, actually look like?
Everyone Assumed You Knew answers it with twelve disciplines, each taught inside a real room from three decades and more than sixty enterprise transformations - the planning a leader quietly undid table by table, the executive who bought the most admired culture in his industry and couldn't see it, the three-minute conversation that changed a career. Plus an afterword on the transformation arriving right now: leading your organization into AI without moving faster in the wrong direction.
You are not the exception. You were never alone in this. Come find out what everyone assumed you already knew.
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