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Man on Fire: Live life on your own terms

Man on Fire: Live life on your own terms

Megyes, Pal

Paperback

Men's HealthSelf-Help

ISBN13: 9798180341259
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Jun 6 2026
Pages: 254
Weight: 0.69
Height: 0.63 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
For the man who reached everything he was meant to reach and found nothing on the other side.

The career is built. The numbers are hit. The promises are kept. And one ordinary Tuesday he wakes up and the engine that used to run is gone.

Not depression in the clinical sense. Not burnout in the press-release sense. Just a quiet draining of meaning from a life that, on paper, is working.

Man on Fire is a field manual for that man.

Written from inside the experience - the cliff in Edinburgh, the long climb back - and from the work of building a life that holds on the other side. Not a memoir. Not a self-help book. Something rarer: a working manual for the work itself.

The book moves through twelve named frameworks built across two decades inside enterprise architecture and the contemplative tradition - the Hungry Dog that explains why the engine has gone quiet, the Gap most men hit a wall on, the Covert Contract running underneath most male suffering, the Negative Why and Soul Why that reveal what is actually moving you, the Picture of a future self that is not fantasy, and the daily practice that holds the whole thing together when nothing else does.

No slogans. No hacks. No motivational reassurance. This book does not perform. Every chapter ends with an exercise you are meant to actually do.

If you are on the floor, this was written for you.

If you are functional but feel nothing, this was written for you.

If you have read every book in this category and none of them landed, try this one.

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Pal Megyes is Hungarian. Former Enterprise Architect and Director at a major IT consultancy, he walked away to build his own work - Fittssy, the production fitness app he wrote himself, and the Man on Fire coaching practice for men in midlife. He lives in Budapest.

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