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The Barstool Business Coach: The Real Work Happens Before the Proposal
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Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Sep 1 2026
Pages: 360
Weight: 0.92
Height: 0.75 Width: 5.50 Depth: 8.50
Language: English
Most companies don't lose when they submit the proposal. They lose months earlier-when they chase the wrong opportunity, mistake access for intimacy, confuse activity with progress, or discover during the RFP that somebody else has been shaping the deal all along.
The Barstool Business Coach is a candid, practical conversation about winning before the proposal is written.
Drawing on decades of military leadership, industrial-organizational psychology, executive coaching, and billions of dollars in business-development wins, James J. Frey takes readers beyond sales slogans and pipeline theater. From a seat at the bar, he explains how serious growth actually happens: understanding the customer, reading the buying environment, testing evidence, building the right team, shaping opportunities, making honest bid decisions, and becoming easier to trust than the competition.
You'll learn how to:
- Separate real opportunities from expensive optimism
- Read Sources Sought notices, RFIs, and customer signals more intelligently
- Build customer intimacy without confusing dinner with progress
- Choose partners-and become the partner others want
- Challenge assumptions before hope receives a charge code
- Develop win themes that survive contact with the RFP
- Make pricing, reviews, and proposal development more disciplined
- Win with enough integrity that customers, partners, and competitors remember you well
This isn't a textbook, and we're not in the bar just to smoke and drink. It's business development explained through stories, psychology, hard-earned experience, and the kind of frank conversation that usually happens after someone closes the conference-room door.
Pull up a stool. The competition started before the solicitation did.
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