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Avoidant Attachment: Why You Pull Away When Love gets close
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Publisher: Independently Published
Pages: 104
Weight: 0.33
Height: 0.25 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
If you pull away when someone matters to you, this book is for you.
Some people are not afraid to love,
but they are afraid to depend on someone.
They appear strong, self-sufficient, and rational.
They need space, silence, and distance to feel safe.
And without realizing it, they pull away just when the connection begins to feel real.
In Avoidant Attachment, Adriana Casanova explores this attachment style with depth, clarity, and compassion-a way of relating that learns to protect itself by closing off emotionally. Drawing on attachment psychology, emotional reflection, and relatable situations, she invites readers to understand why some people confuse independence with disconnection, and how that pattern can eventually lead to loneliness.
This book is not about changing who you are or convincing you to feel more than you want to. It is about helping you understand yourself, reconnect with your emotional world, and discover that true strength does not lie in needing no one, but in being able to choose connection without fear.
Because opening up does not mean losing control.
It means beginning to live more truthfully within yourself.
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