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How to Understand People & How to Deal with People: Becoming a "Human Lie Detector" & Decoding Body Language
Hardcover
CognitionGeneral PsychologySelf-Help
ISBN13: 9782382265444
Publisher: Books Explorer
Published: Jun 18 2025
Pages: 204
Weight: 0.91
Height: 0.50 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Fact Most People Get Wrong:
Understanding people isn't about reading minds-it's about recognizing that everyone is the hero of their own story, and you're just a side character in theirs.
Most people think understanding others means decoding secret signals or unlocking psychological hacks, but the real key is shifting from self-focused to other-focused perception. The biggest mistake? Assuming others think like you do.
Pro-Tips to Master Understanding People
1. The 5-Second Mirror Trick
When someone speaks, pause for 5 seconds and mentally mirror their posture, tone, and word choices before responding. This builds instant subconscious rapport.
Hidden Pitfall: Over-miroring can feel robotic. Keep it subtle.
2. Ask What's Unsaid?
People reveal more in what they avoid saying. Notice topics they deflect, jokes that mask pain, or sudden topic shifts.
Hidden Pitfall: Don't assume-ask open-ended questions instead of guessing.
3. The Emotional GPS Method
Emotions follow patterns. Track:
Triggers (What sets them off?)
Tells (How do they show discomfort?)
Timeouts (When do they withdraw?)
Hidden Pitfall: Over-tracking can make interactions feel like lab experiments.
and More ...
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