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The Stories We Tell Ourselves: Belief, Identity, and the Psychology of Self-Deception
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ISBN13: 9798180800909
Publisher: Independently Published
Pages: 158
Weight: 0.44
Height: 0.40 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Publisher: Independently Published
Pages: 158
Weight: 0.44
Height: 0.40 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Every story you tell about yourself is also a story you are hiding behind.
The version of events that always casts you as the reasonable one. The identity you defend with more energy than you defend your actual happiness. The quiet, persistent narrative about what you are capable of and what you deserve that has been drawing the boundaries of your life since before you were old enough to question who drew them.
The version of events that always casts you as the reasonable one. The identity you defend with more energy than you defend your actual happiness. The quiet, persistent narrative about what you are capable of and what you deserve that has been drawing the boundaries of your life since before you were old enough to question who drew them.
The Stories We Tell Ourselves is a deeply human exploration of the mind's most powerful and most overlooked habit: the continuous, largely unconscious construction of a self through narrative. With cinematic honesty and emotional precision, this book traces the stories that protect us and the stories that diminish us, the comfortable fictions that make life manageable and the limiting ones that make it smaller than it needs to be.
This is not a book about other people and their self-deceptions. It is a book about the specific, intimate, entirely recognizable ways that the mind shapes reality to protect a version of yourself that may no longer be serving the life you are trying to live.
The most important story you will ever examine is the one you have been telling about yourself.
This book is where that examination begins.
This is not a book about other people and their self-deceptions. It is a book about the specific, intimate, entirely recognizable ways that the mind shapes reality to protect a version of yourself that may no longer be serving the life you are trying to live.
The most important story you will ever examine is the one you have been telling about yourself.
This book is where that examination begins.
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