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One Question Deeper: First Dates & New Friends. 280 Questions and 560 Follow-Ups for Getting Past Small Talk
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Series: One Question Deeper, Book 10
General ReferenceRelationshipsSelf-Help
Publisher: Inkylines & Words
Published: Nov 7 2026
Pages: 318
Weight: 0.70
Height: 0.71 Width: 5.00 Depth: 8.00
Language: English
You don't need more things to talk about. You need somewhere for the conversation to go.
One Question Deeper: First Dates & New Friends gives you 280 questions and 560 follow-ups to help you go beyond small talk and build meaningful conversations, whether you're on a first date, meeting new friends, or getting to know someone better.
The questions move gently from light to deep across eight sections: Easy Openers, where nothing is at stake; What You Like; How You Spend Your Life; The Stories Behind You; How You See the World; People & Relationships; Who You're Becoming; and Should We Do This Again?, an honest ending that neither forces a connection nor rushes away from one.
Every question comes with two follow-ups and a NOTICE prompt that helps you hear what is actually being said. Questions range from What is something you have been looking forward to all week? and What is a custom or ritual from your upbringing that you still carry? to What is something you did recently that you did not know you had in you?
The method is simple: ask a real question, listen to the actual answer, follow up one question deeper, and let what you hear matter. Use it on date nights, over coffee, during a walk, on a road trip, or at a gathering. Part of the One Question Deeper series of conversation books by Carl Williams.
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