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The Problem With Chemistry: The Smart Woman's Guide To Fixing A Broken Picker And Finding Healthy Love
Paperback
Publisher: Vibenotic Publishing
Published: Jun 7 2025
Pages: 266
Weight: 0.79
Height: 0.56 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Learn 8 ways to fix a broken man-picker, with The Problem With Chemistry: The Smart Woman's Guide to Fixing a Broken Picker and Finding Healthy Love
If you've ever suffered through trauma in relationships you will benefit from reading this.I keep picking the same guy over and over... just with a different face.
The Problem With Chemistry reveals the science behind why we chase after unavailable or emotionally unsafe partners-and how to rewire the patterns that keep you stuck in painful love loops. This isn't about settling for someone you're not attracted to-it's about healing your nervous system and subconscious programming so you actually feel drawn to healthy, available, emotionally safe love.
Inside, you'll discover:
Why chemistry often leads to chaos
8 powerful ways to break your pattern of choosing the wrong men
How to recognize and release trauma bonds masquerading as love
What healthy attraction really feels like-and how to experience it for the first time
How to rewire your subconscious so choosing better becomes effortless
Tools to help you move on from emotionally unavailable partners-for good
This book is a must-read for any woman who's ever found herself stuck in a cycle of picking the wrong guy after wrong guy.
It's relatable, life-changing, and grounded in real science-not pop psychology or empty affirmations.You'll also receive access to powerful bonus support tools (over $200 worth!), including guided meditations and worksheets originally created for the author's private coaching clients... to help you create deep, lasting transformation.
If you've ever said: I'm a good woman. I have my life together... except when it comes to love
...this book will help you finally understand why-and show you how to change it.
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