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Sexual energy is not for sex
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Men's HealthMetaphysical GeneralGeneral Alternative Health
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ISBN13: 9781068188015
Publisher: Abc42
Published: Aug 2 2025
Pages: 236
Weight: 0.71
Height: 0.54 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Primal energies, inherent in us, manifest differently depending on the person and circumstances.
The primal energy is the creative force typically used for procreation or genuine, healthy connection for mutual pleasure rather than sexualised due to external socially damaging factors. Sexual energy is not for sex because sex is a loving act that requires primal, human desire. In contrast, the sexual energy is explored here as the emerging animal craving force that ravages minds and incubates by quickly putting people into situations that should be rooted in healthy desire and healing, yet usually end up sexualised, abusive or misguided.
This book is written for the male and female reader to inquire and understand respectively how unstable male desire unbalances one to react sexually rather than act lovingly. Our shadow and demon are characters seen as culprits destabilising our higher self or personal entity away from balance and bliss. Our entity harmonises the feelings so that sexual energy is a healing force for creativity and not dissipation via destructive sexual activity. The book will appeal to the man who wishes to grok his bad sexual habits and further surprise the woman by fulfilling her most secret fantasy; a truly lustful, loving connection. It may also appeal to the woman looking to understand men's addiction to sex more simply or to the male therapist wanting to better deal with his experiences of the female client, or couples and singles wishing or liking insight into how to deal with personal sexual excitement versus the voyeuristic heart feeling axis required to handle nights of curated excess.
The author draws upon his thirty-seven years' experience massaging women to guide men through their desire issues with women. He has a jokey high moral tone to stir up the reader and question their motivations. Each chapter addresses the awkward subject of sex by revealing various ways of holding back the initial desires until natural healing and connection occurs with another person. The subjects of human versus animal natures, dealing with projections from others, jealousies, malicious gossip, misunderstandings, perversions, and rape fantasies are all dealt with as symptomatic of the sexual energy unchecked and the heart disturbed, and bodies abused.
He offers dark and amusing practical examples from his work and life. It is for men to analyse and manage themselves during moments of overstimulated desires for women - as encouraged by pornography and the media that have taken men away from their wholesome association with pure lust, the celebration of bodily functions. Ultimately, this book is truthful yet tongue in cheek, severe but playful because nothing in it is the truth except to guide one to the examples of your truth via experience and not information alone.
So, join Emanuel Ray as he strolls through his memory, recalling his experiences as a masseur, sensual therapist, and witness to sexual awakenings and adventures. See and learn how sexual energy can transform for self-healing and harness more than simple, mindless sex.
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