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I Don't Want to Go Any More
Paperback
Child PsychologyCognitionGeneral Parenting
ISBN13: 9781911837589
Publisher: Regulated Human Co
Published: Oct 3 2026
Pages: 66
Weight: 0.16
Height: 0.16 Width: 5.00 Depth: 8.00
Language: English
The club they begged for is now a Saturday fight.
Swimming, football, piano, Cubs. Somewhere in these years the activity they asked for becomes the fight of the week, with the swim bag standing in the hall like a referee nobody appointed.
And you are having the argument at twenty to nine, in a coat, with the car outside and eleven minutes to decide something that feels much larger than eleven minutes should hold.
What makes it hard is that both answers sound wrong. Make them go, and you are the parent who does not listen. Let them stop, and you are the parent who let them give up at the first difficult bit - and you can hear a version of that sentence in somebody else's voice while you are still standing in the hall.
A short book about the refusal.
Which signal is actually underneath it, because I don't want to go any more covers several completely different things and they need different answers. A hard week. A person there. Something that happened last time. Being suddenly worse at it than they used to be. A body that has grown four inches and does not work the way it did. Or genuinely, plainly, finished with it.
Why nothing true gets decided at the door. The hall on a Saturday morning is the worst place in the week to settle anything, and whatever is agreed there is being agreed by two people who both want the next ten minutes to stop.
And the one calm question, asked on a Wednesday, that tells a tired week from a finished club.
Nothing here about grit. Grit is not the question at twenty to nine on a Saturday, and it is not what is being tested. Plenty of people who stopped one thing at ten went on to be perfectly capable of finishing things.
Nothing here about whether they should do a sport, either. That is a different argument and you have probably already had it with somebody.
Quitting is sometimes the right call. Knowing when is the whole of this book.
Not at the door. Ask on Wednesday.
For the parent, not the child. Sixty-four pages, small enough for a coat pocket.
This book supports everyday emotional awareness. It is not a screening tool and it is not a substitute for professional guidance.
Everyday Signals: short guides for the hard bits of an ordinary day. No quick fixes. No hype. Regulation before optimisation.
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