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How to Talk to Anyone About Anything: Improve Your Social Skills, Master Small Talk, Connect Effortlessly, and Make Real Friends
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Series: Communication Skills Training, Book 6
CognitionGeneral SociologySelf-Help
Publisher Price: $19.97
ISBN13: 9781953036353
Publisher: Alakai Publishing LLC
Published: Mar 26 2021
Pages: 170
Weight: 0.38
Height: 0.36 Width: 5.00 Depth: 8.00
Language: English
Most adults are surprisingly bad at small talk.
Not bad as in shy. Bad as in: weather, weekend, work - the usual three - and then a slow death.
The good ones aren't more outgoing. They have a system.
This book is that system.
Not 51 conversation starters. Not be confident. A structured way to enter, sustain, and gracefully exit conversations with anyone - coworkers, strangers, in-laws, the date you weren't sure about.
Inside:
- The three openers that work in any context, and why what do you do isn't one.
- F.O.R.D. - Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams. The four-part frame that gives you 90 minutes of material with anyone.
- How to keep talking when there's nothing to talk about. The pivot move.
- Active listening that isn't fake. Specific things to do with your face, your body, your follow-up.
- Reading when someone wants out - and how to get out yourself without being rude.
- Difficult topics: politics, religion, money, illness. When to engage, when to deflect, what to say either way.
- The conversation hack used by hostage negotiators. Real one. Useful in any awkward moment.
If you've ever survived a networking event by hiding in the bathroom, this is your map.
Conversation isn't a personality trait. It's a craft, and like any craft, it gets dramatically easier with the right framework.
Read it once. Practice one technique at the next dinner. Notice the difference within a week.
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