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    612-822-4611

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Different On Purpose: Turning High Cognitive and Emotional Intelligence, Deep Emotions, and Overthinking into Your Greatest Strength

Different On Purpose: Turning High Cognitive and Emotional Intelligence, Deep Emotions, and Overthinking into Your Greatest Strength

Barrett M. Sc, Olivia E.

Paperback

Series: On Your Own Side

CognitionMental HealthSelf-Help

ISBN10: 2940848130
ISBN13: 9782940848133
Publisher: Etr Publishing
Published: Jun 3 2026
Pages: 242
Weight: 0.72
Height: 0.51 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
You were never too much. You were always in the wrong room.

You've spent years adjusting. Simplifying what you say. Slowing down how you think. Editing yourself in meetings, in relationships, in conversations that should have been easy but never quite were. You learned to call it overthinking. Other people called it sensitivity. Neither word ever felt right, because neither one was the whole truth. And no amount of trying to stop overthinking, manage your anxiety, or push through the self-doubt ever quite worked, because none of those things addressed the real problem.

By the time you finish this book, you will:

  • Stop interpreting your struggles as weakness or failure, and start making decisions from a place of genuine self-understanding
  • Direct your energy toward building a life that actually fits, instead of fighting environments and situations that were never designed for you
  • Navigate your daily life with greater ease, because you will finally understand the patterns driving your behaviour, your emotions, and your exhaustion
  • Build relationships and choose work that align with who you actually are, rather than who you have been trying to be
  • Wake up with a fundamentally different relationship with yourself, where the question is no longer what is wrong with me? but what do I need? and you will know how to answer it
Different on Purpose gives you the whole truth. And more importantly, it gives you a way forward.

Drawing on nearly three decades of clinical experience, psychologist Olivia E. Barrett M.Sc. introduces the concept of Mismatch Load: the invisible cost of operating with a high IQ, deep emotional intelligence, or both, at a higher cognitive or emotional resolution than the environments around you were designed for. It isn't a flaw. It isn't a diagnosis. It is a structural reality, and once you see it clearly, everything else begins to make sense. For many people, that clarity brings profound anxiety relief.

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