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Why Do I Push Love Away?: Overcoming Anxious Attachment, Self-Sabotage, and the Fear of Healthy Love

Why Do I Push Love Away?: Overcoming Anxious Attachment, Self-Sabotage, and the Fear of Healthy Love

Noir, Elena

Paperback

Series: Why Do I Push Love Away?, Book 1

General ParentingRelationshipsSelf-Help

ISBN13: 9798171242268
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Sep 12 2026
Pages: 112
Weight: 0.28
Height: 0.28 Width: 5.50 Depth: 8.50
Language: English
It's 2:17 in the morning, and you're checking a phone that won't light up.

You've chased the one who kept pulling away. You've also run from the one who finally stayed, and you didn't understand why until much later. You told yourself you were just a hopeless romantic. You told yourself modern dating was broken, or he was busy, or the timing was wrong. But some nights, lying there in the silence, you wondered if the problem wasn't him at all.

Why Do I Push Love Away? is Elena Noir's honest account of the year she stopped blaming bad luck and bad timing and finally asked herself a harder question. What if I'm the common denominator?

Across sixteen chapters, Elena walks through her own pattern in real detail: the chasing, the shrinking, the way chaos can feel like chemistry when you don't know any better. The story moves from a bathroom floor at 2 AM to a quiet Tuesday evening on the couch, tea in hand, with a partner who simply stays. Along the way, she shares the same tools she built for herself, so you don't have to figure them out the hard way as she did.

This book won't tell you to lower your standards or wait around for someone to fix you. It's for anyone who has felt a relationship start to feel good, and immediately gone looking for a way out.

Here's what you'll take from it:


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