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The Pleasure Protocol: A Contemporary Guide to Bdsm
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ISBN13: 9798217273683
Publisher: Ten Speed Press
Published: Dec 8 2026
Pages: 336
Weight: 0.67
Height: 0.81 Width: 5.50 Depth: 8.25
Language: English
Publisher: Ten Speed Press
Published: Dec 8 2026
Pages: 336
Weight: 0.67
Height: 0.81 Width: 5.50 Depth: 8.25
Language: English
The essential, modern guide to BDSM--an empowering roadmap that takes you from curiosity to confidence with safety, skill, and unapologetic pleasure Over half of Americans fantasize about exploring the world of BDSM, and now The Pleasure Protocol offers a personalized invitation and roadmap for every reader. Drawing on over two decades of experience as a BDSM educator and intimacy coach, Shelby M. Devlin, M.A., blends practical tools, psychological insight, and real-world techniques to demystify dominance and submission. This groundbreaking guide shows you (and any partners) how to negotiate boundaries, build trust, master hands-on skills, and create unforgettable intimate experiences grounded in consent and care. You'll find:
- Step-by-step framework for moving from curiosity to confidence in BDSM play
- Psychological insights into desire, fantasy, and the art of power exchange
- Practical skills and safety know-how for bondage, impact play, roleplay, and more
- Guidance for building trust and intimacy through negotiation, consent, and aftercare
- and more...
From power play and scene-building to aftercare and navigating common fantasies, The Pleasure Protocol offers a step-by-step pathway for both beginners and seasoned kinksters to explore deeper connection, greater intimacy, and limitless pleasure.
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