Sign-In
Cart
Say It Smaller
Paperback
Currently unavailable to order
Please enter your email and a message will be sent to you when this product becomes available on our website.
Publisher: Linnet Braddock
Pages: 152
Weight: 0.47
Height: 0.33 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
It's half past nine and you are lying there replaying eleven seconds of something that happened at lunchtime.
You have been told to think positive. To focus on the good things. To remember that other people have it worse. None of that works at half past nine, and it is not because you are doing it badly. It is because all of it asks you to change how you feel by deciding to, and feelings do not take instructions.
Here is a different idea. You cannot make a bad day feel better by deciding to. You can make it smaller - and a smaller thing is one you can handle.
Say It Smaller teaches one repeatable five-step method for cutting a bad evening down to its actual size. It takes about four minutes once you know it. It works on paper the first month and in your head after that, and the last chapter is the whole book on one page, because if this works you should stop needing the book.
The five steps:
- SAY IT - what happened, in one sentence, with only what a camera would have recorded
- CUT IT - separate what happened from the story your head added on top of it
- FIND THE LINE - underneath a bad day there is one sentence about you. Write it down. Don't argue with it
- ASK WHAT IT WANTS - every feeling is asking for something. There are eight. Name yours
- DO THE SMALLEST TRUE THING - one honest action, under ten minutes, tonight
Then you watch it work. There are 24 worked examples - marks, friends, home, being laughed at, the phone, and the heavy ones - each run start to finish, and each one ending with what the method did NOT fix, because a book that claims to fix things is lying to you.
Also inside: a twenty-sentence practice exercise for the step everyone skips, a quick-reference list of forty situations with the want and the action for each, why everything is bigger after nine o'clock, six ways people get this wrong, and a thirty-day plan for learning it properly on small things.
And a chapter called The Part That Isn't a Step, which is where the method stops. Some things are not bad days. Somebody hurting you is not a bad day. Carrying somebody else's secret is not a bad day. A flatness that does not lift is not a bad day. That chapter says so plainly, tells you exactly what words to use, and comes before the end of the book rather than tucked away at the back.
Written for readers of about thirteen and up. No therapy, no diagnosis, no studies, no statistics, no research says - and an author who states on the copyright page that she holds no clinical qualification of any kind.
Also in
Young Adult Nonfiction
Consider the Platypus: Evolution Through Biology's Most Baffling Beasts
Sandford, Maggie Ryan
Hardcover
Large Print Easy Color & Frame - Stress Free: Adult Coloring Book with 31 Designs Flowers, Mandalas & Nature Perforated Pages, Spiral Bound Gift for A
New Seasons
Publications International Ltd
Paperback
Large Print Easy Color & Frame - Calm (Stress Free Coloring Book)
Publications International Ltd
New Seasons
Paperback
Cursive Handwriting Workbook for Teens: Exercises to Learn, Practice, and Improve
Briggs, Missy
Paperback
Braiding Sweetgrass for Young Adults: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants
Gray Smith, Monique
Kimmerer, Robin Wall
Paperback
GED Test Prep Plus, Tenth Edition (2026): Includes a Diagnostic Pretest, 2 Full Length Practice Tests, 1000+ Practice Questions, and 60+ Online Videos
Van Slyke, Caren
Kaplan Test Prep
Paperback
Just Mercy (Adapted for Young Adults): A True Story of the Fight for Justice
Stevenson, Bryan
Paperback
GED Test Prep, Tenth Edition (2026): Includes a Diagnostic Pretest, 2 Full Length Practice Tests, 1000+ Practice Questions, and 40+ Online Videos
Van Slyke, Caren
Kaplan Test Prep
Paperback
Color & Frame - In the Forest (Adult Coloring Book)
New Seasons
Publications International Ltd
Paperback
Be Yourself and Other Bad Advice: A Teen Girl's Guide to Unlearning the Rules
Walker, Meredith
Paperback
Self-Love Journal for Teen Girls: Prompts and Practices to Inspire Confidence and Celebrate You
Whitehead, Cindy
Paperback
Brain Games - Sticker by Number: Ocean Treasures (13 Images to Sticker)
Publications International Ltd
New Seasons
Brain Games
Paperback
We Are Displaced: My Journey and Stories from Refugee Girls Around the World
Yousafzai, Malala
Paperback
The Super Easy Teen Baking Cookbook: 60 Simple Step-By-Step Recipes
Schotland, Marlynn Jayme
Paperback
Color & Frame - Ocean Treasures (Adult Coloring Book)
Publications International Ltd
New Seasons
Paperback
Stealing Saint Nick: A Legendary Corpse, a Notorious Theft, and the Stories That Shape the World
Anderson, M. T.
Hardcover
Trans History: A Graphic Novel: From Ancient Times to the Present Day
Eakett, Andrew
Combs, Alex L.
Paperback
Stamped: Racism, Antiracism, and You: A Remix of the National Book Award-Winning Stamped from the Beginning
Reynolds, Jason
Kendi, Ibram X.
Paperback
Large Print Easy Color & Frame - Mindfulness (Stress Free Coloring Book)
New Seasons
Publications International Ltd
Paperback
It's Trevor Noah: Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood (Adapted for Young Readers)
Noah, Trevor
Paperback
SAT Study Guide Premium, 2027: 3 Practice Tests + Comprehensive Review + Online Practice and Video Lessons
Stewart, Brian W., M. Ed
Paperback
Everything You Need to Ace Pre-Algebra and Algebra 1 in One Big Fat Notebook
Wang, Jason
Workman Publishing
Paperback
The Case for Faith: A Journalist Investigates the Toughest Objections to Christianity
Strobel, Lee
Paperback
A Better World Is Possible: Global Youth Confront the Climate Crisis
Novgorodoff, Danica
Subramanian, Meera
Hardcover
Getting Started with Arduino: The Open Source Electronics Prototyping Platform
Shiloh, Michael
Banzi, Massimo
Paperback
I Want More Pizza: Real World Money Skills For High School, College, And Beyond
Burkholder, Steve
Paperback
Brain Games - Sticker by Number - Vintage: Flowers (28 Images to Sticker)
New Seasons
Brain Games
Publications International Ltd
Paperback
Everything You Need to Ace Biology in One Big Fat Notebook
Workman Publishing
Brown, Matthew
Paperback
ACT Study Guide Premium, 2026: 6 Practice Tests + Comprehensive Review + Online Practice for the New Enhanced ACT
Stewart, Brian, M. Ed
Paperback
Mindfulness Coloring Book for Teens: Reduce Anxiety, Increase Focus, and Spark Creativity
Rockridge Press
Paperback
Brain Games - Color by Number: Butterflies - Stress-Free Adult Coloring Book with Tear-Out Pages Relaxing Activity for Paint by Number Lovers Gift for
New Seasons
Publications International Ltd
Brain Games
Paperback
Everything You Need to Ace Geometry in One Big Fat Notebook
Needham, Christy
Workman Publishing
Paperback
The 57 Bus: A True Story of Two Teenagers and the Crime That Changed Their Lives
Slater, Dashka
Hardcover
The Big Fat High School Algebra 1 Workbook: 400+ Algebra 1 Practice Exercises
Workman Publishing
Paperback
Pilot's Handbook of Aeronautical Knowledge: Faa-H-8083-25c
Federal Aviation Administration (FAA)
Paperback
American Spirits: The Famous Fox Sisters and the Mysterious Fad That Haunted a Nation
Rosenstock, Barb
Hardcover
I Will Always Write Back: How One Letter Changed Two Lives
Ganda, Martin
Alifirenka, Caitlin
Paperback
The Real Rosalind: The Truth about Rosalind Franklin's DNA Discovery and How It Was Erased
Fox, Janet
Dunn, Debbie Loren
Paperback
Rich Dad Poor Dad for Teens: The Secrets about Money--That You Don't Learn in School!
Kiyosaki, Robert T.
Paperback
Cursive Handwriting Workbook for Teens: A cursive writing practice workbook for young adults and teens
Hippidoo
Lalgudi, Sujatha
Paperback
Everything You Need to Ace Chemistry in One Big Fat Notebook
Swanson, Jennifer
Workman Publishing
Paperback
Azadi Means Freedom: Fighting for Gender Equity Through the World's Most Popular Game
Shojaei, Maryam
Hardcover
Brain Games - Sticker by Number - Vintage: Garden (28 Images to Sticker)
Brain Games
Publications International Ltd
New Seasons
Paperback
Everything You Need to Ace U.S. History in One Big Fat Notebook, 2nd Edition: The Complete Middle School Study Guide
Workman Publishing
Paperback
Brain Games - Sticker by Number: Smile Every Day
New Seasons
Brain Games
Publications International Ltd
Paperback
A Tale of a Service Animal: A Heartwarming Tale of Disability Awareness, Friendship, and Kindness (Large Print Edition)
DiVietri, Melissa A.
Paperback
An Astonishing Circle: The Discovery and Denial of the Circulatory System
Parrott-Ryan, Maria
Paperback
How to Money: Your Ultimate Visual Guide to the Basics of Finance
Chatzky, Jean
Tuggle, Kathryn
Paperback
Neurodiversity for Teen Girls: Shine Bright as You Embrace Your Brain, Your Emotions, and Your Life
Roberts, Jamie D.
Paperback
A Better World Is Possible: Global Youth Confront the Climate Crisis
Novgorodoff, Danica
Subramanian, Meera
Paperback
Small Victories: A Coloring Book of Little Wins and Miniature Masterpieces
Basford, Johanna
Paperback
The Case for Christ Student Edition: A Journalist's Personal Investigation of the Evidence for Jesus
Strobel, Lee
Paperback
The Big Fat High School Algebra 2 Workbook: 400+ Algebra 2 Practice Exercises
Workman Publishing
Paperback
Color & Frame - Country Gardens (Adult Coloring Book)
New Seasons
Publications International Ltd
Paperback
Master Guide to Drawing Anime: How to Draw Original Characters from Simple Templates - A How to Draw Anime / Manga Step by Step Book Series
Hart, Christopher
Paperback
Personal Finance Doodle Notes: Brain Based Interactive Guided Notes
Danziger, Brigid
Giraffe, Math
Paperback
99 Things to Do Before You Finish High School (Revised and Updated)
Villas, Evan
Jenkins, Steven
Stalder, Erika
Paperback
So, It's Your First Job: A Quick-Ish Guide to Navigating the Working World
Orozco-Onyskin, Mari
Paperback
Crochet for Beginners: Step-By-Step Instructions and Patterns
Publications International Ltd
Paperback
A Deathly Compendium of Poisonous Plants: Wicked Weeds and Sinister Seeds
Hirsch, Rebecca E.
Paperback
My First Complete Learning Library: Boxset of 20 Board Books Gift Set for Kids
Wonder House Books
Hardcover
Integers and Order of Operations Math Workbook 6th to 8th Grade: Middle School Integers Workbook, PEMDAS
Publishing, Mathflare
Paperback
The Audhd Teen Survival Guide: Develop Self-Knowledge, Confidence, and Thrive as an Audhder!
Ali, Sonia
Paperback
Lana del Rey: A Vibrant Journey Through the Career and Influence of the Timeless Indie-Pop Icon
Fragassi, Selena
Hardcover
The Graduation Guidebook: What Every Student Needs to Know About Money and Life
Nermoe, Kathryn
Paperback
Niv, Bible for Teens, Thinline Edition, Leathersoft, Blue, Red Letter Edition, Comfort Print
Zondervan
Hardcover
Color & Frame - 3 Books in 1 - Animals, Seasons, Inspiration (Adult Coloring Book)
New Seasons
Publications International Ltd
Paperback
Brain Games - Color by Number - Large Print: Patterns (Stress Free Coloring Book)
Publications International Ltd
Brain Games
New Seasons
Paperback
The Vocabulary Workbook for 8th Grade: Weekly Activities to Boost Your Word Power
McLellan, Kelly Anne
Paperback
72 Prácticas Estoicas: Guía práctica de estoicismo para pensar con claridad y sufrir menos
Guerrero, Moisés
Paperback
The Ultimate Activity Book for Teens: Crosswords, Cryptograms, Trivia, and More!
Deneen, Valerie
Paperback
Women in Space: 23 Stories of First Flights, Scientific Missions, and Gravity-Breaking Adventures
Gibson, Karen Bush
Paperback
Rebel Girls Make Dessert: Kid-Tested Recipes You Can Make, Bake, and Share!
Rebel Girls Inc
Paperback
The Case for Faith Student Edition: A Journalist Investigates the Toughest Objections to Christianity
Strobel, Lee
Paperback
A 5 Is Against the Law: Social Boundaries - a Compassionate but Honest Guide for Teens and Young Adults
Dunn Buron, Kari
Paperback
Preteen Devotional for Girls: 52 Weeks of Encouraging Devotions and Scripture for Tweens
Rust, Brittany
Paperback
Instant Pot Favorites: Fast, Fresh and Foolproof Recipes for Your Electric Pressure Cooker
Publications International Ltd
Hardcover
101 Lessons from the Dugout: What Baseball and Softball Can Teach Us about the Game of Life
Rotbart, Harley A.
Davidoff, Ken
Paperback
The Easy Drawing Book for Teens: 20 Step-By-Step Projects to Improve Your Drawing Skills
Rizza, Angela
Paperback
Accountable: The True Story of a Racist Social Media Account and the Teenagers Whose Lives It Changed
Slater, Dashka
Hardcover
Mental Toughness For Young Athletes: Eight Proven 5-Minute Mindset Exercises For Kids And Teens Who Play Competitive Sports
Horne, Troy
Horne, Moses
Paperback
Color & Frame - In the Garden (Adult Coloring Book)
New Seasons
Publications International Ltd
Paperback
Sabrina Carpenter: A Vibrant Journey Through the Career and Influence of a Pop Princess
Fragassi, Selena
Hardcover
Color & Frame - By the Sea: Adult Coloring Book with Ocean Designs - Perforated Pages, Spiral Bound
New Seasons
Publications International Ltd
Paperback