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Parenting Across the Divide: A Trauma-Informed Co-Parenting Workbook
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Publisher: Nji Publishing
Published: Feb 10 2026
Pages: 444
Weight: 2.34
Height: 1.21 Width: 7.44 Depth: 9.69
Language: English
Parenting Across the Divide is a comprehensive, trauma-informed co-parenting workbook created for real families navigating conflict, silence, estrangement, and emotionally complex parenting dynamics-while remaining centered on what matters most: the safety, stability, and emotional well-being of children.
For many parents, the common advice to just get along for the kids is unrealistic and, in some cases, unsafe. When co-parenting involves high conflict, court involvement, chronic non-cooperation, or emotional harm, families need practical structure-not platitudes. This workbook was created to serve as both a planning tool and a healing space, supporting parents who are parenting across division while protecting their child's peace.
Created by Nahomie Julien, LCSW, licensed therapist and parent advocate, this 400+ page workbook functions as a workshop in a book. It offers a clinically grounded yet flexible framework that can be used independently or alongside therapeutic, educational, or court-adjacent parenting programs. The approach is trauma-informed, child-centered, and designed to meet families where they are-whether navigating cooperative, conflicted, or parallel parenting arrangements.
Unlike traditional co-parenting guides that assume mutual cooperation, Parenting Across the Divide acknowledges the realities of emotionally complex and high-stress dynamics. It is especially suited for parents who must prioritize clarity, boundaries, and consistency when collaboration is limited or unsafe. The workbook emphasizes emotional regulation, intentional decision-making, and documentation practices that support stability for both parents and children.
Inside this 400+ page toolkit, readers will find:- Structured reflection prompts that support accountability, emotional awareness, and grounded decision-making
- Trauma-informed communication scripts for conflict-limited and business-focused parenting interactions
- Emotional check-ins and grounding tools designed to support nervous-system regulation
- Practical worksheets and trackers for custody schedules, transitions, holidays, and documentation
- Weekly co-parenting journals and child-focused decision-making templates
- Therapist collaboration logs and support documentation tools
- Dedicated chapters addressing child protection, financial dignity, boundaries, and court-related stressors
- Guidance for navigating persistent conflict, non-cooperation, or emotionally harmful co-parenting dynamics
- Inclusive frameworks supporting LGBTQ+ families, blended families, chosen families, and culturally rooted or immigrant households
Rooted in trauma-informed and culturally responsive care, Parenting Across the Divide recognizes the layered realities many families face, including systemic stressors, generational trauma, and identity-based marginalization. The workbook avoids blame-based or reconciliation-dependent models and instead prioritizes safety, clarity, predictability, and child-centered stability.
This resource affirms that parents do not need a perfect agreement to protect their child's well-being, nor do they need to resolve all relational wounds to begin parenting with intention. Parenting Across the Divide offers practical tools, compassionate language, and a reliable framework parents and professionals can return to repeatedly-supporting resilience, dignity, and informed parenting across even the most difficult divides.
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