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Kind is Not Nice: How High Performers Stop Being Used Without Becoming Bitter
Paperback
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Jan 8 2026
Pages: 110
Weight: 0.32
Height: 0.28 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
How High Performers Stop Being Used Without Becoming Bitter
by Kerwin Boxill
You're dependable.
You're capable.
You care.
And somehow... you're exhausted.
If you're the one everyone relies on - at work, in relationships, in life - but your own needs keep coming last, this book was written for you.
Kind Is Not Nice exposes one of the most damaging myths high performers live by:
that being agreeable is the same as being good.
It's not.
In this clear, grounded, no-nonsense guide, resilience and execution speaker Kerwin Boxill shows how kindness without boundaries leads to burnout, resentment, and quiet self-betrayal - while clarity builds respect, peace, and strength.
This isn't about becoming cold.
It's about becoming whole.
Why capable, reliable people are the first to be overused
How to say no without guilt, over-explaining, or apology
How to handle pushback and emotional manipulation calmly
Why peace - not pressure - is the real form of power
How to move from people-pleasing to self-leadership
This is not motivational hype or pop psychology.
It's a practical, experience-driven guide for professionals, leaders, and high performers who are done betraying themselves in the name of being nice.
If you're ready to:
Reclaim your time and energy
Set boundaries without becoming bitter
Earn respect without asking for it
And live with clarity instead of constant obligation
Kind Is Not Nice will change how you think, decide, and show up.
Be kind.
Not nice.
And never apologize for it again.
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