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Destin en otage d'un adulte éternellement enfant
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ISBN13: 9798192184707
Publisher: Independently Published
Pages: 88
Weight: 0.28
Height: 0.21 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: French
Publisher: Independently Published
Pages: 88
Weight: 0.28
Height: 0.21 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: French
Me croiriez-vous si je vous dis que l'amour de vos parents peut, sans le vouloir, vous empêcher de devenir adulte ?
Dans de nombreuses familles africaines, protéger son enfant signifie parfois décider pour lui, le surveiller, le garder sous son toit et continuer à le traiter comme un petit enfant même lorsqu'il a trente ou quarante ans.
Dans de nombreuses familles africaines, protéger son enfant signifie parfois décider pour lui, le surveiller, le garder sous son toit et continuer à le traiter comme un petit enfant même lorsqu'il a trente ou quarante ans.
Mais à force de vouloir protéger, ne finit-on pas par empêcher de grandir ?
Destin en otage d'un adulte éternellement enfant plonge au coeur d'une réalité familiale aussi profonde que douloureuse: la dépendance, la surprotection, l'autorité excessive, la peur de laisser partir et les conséquences d'une éducation qui ne prépare pas toujours à affronter la vie.
À travers des témoignages bouleversants, des dialogues réalistes et des situations profondément humaines, ce livre montre comment de bonnes intentions peuvent parfois produire des adultes dépendants, fragiles ou incapables de prendre pleinement leur destin en main.
Il interroge également la place des parents dans la vie sentimentale et conjugale de leurs enfants, l'éducation des filles et des garçons, l'indépendance financière, le travail, la responsabilité et cette difficulté à couper le cordon familial.
Ce livre n'accuse pas les parents: il les interpelle.
Il ne condamne pas l'amour familial: il demande simplement que cet amour apprenne aussi à laisser vivre.
Car un enfant n'a pas besoin d'être protégé de toutes ses erreurs.
Il a besoin d'apprendre à tomber, à comprendre, à se relever et à devenir responsable de sa propre vie.
Et lorsque les parents ne seront plus là , qui apprendra à l'enfant qu'ils ont empêché de grandir à devenir enfin un adulte ?
Un livre pour les parents, pour les enfants devenus adultes et pour tous ceux qui veulent aimer sans posséder, protéger sans étouffer et transmettre sans enfermer.
Destin en otage d'un adulte éternellement enfant plonge au coeur d'une réalité familiale aussi profonde que douloureuse: la dépendance, la surprotection, l'autorité excessive, la peur de laisser partir et les conséquences d'une éducation qui ne prépare pas toujours à affronter la vie.
À travers des témoignages bouleversants, des dialogues réalistes et des situations profondément humaines, ce livre montre comment de bonnes intentions peuvent parfois produire des adultes dépendants, fragiles ou incapables de prendre pleinement leur destin en main.
Il interroge également la place des parents dans la vie sentimentale et conjugale de leurs enfants, l'éducation des filles et des garçons, l'indépendance financière, le travail, la responsabilité et cette difficulté à couper le cordon familial.
Ce livre n'accuse pas les parents: il les interpelle.
Il ne condamne pas l'amour familial: il demande simplement que cet amour apprenne aussi à laisser vivre.
Car un enfant n'a pas besoin d'être protégé de toutes ses erreurs.
Il a besoin d'apprendre à tomber, à comprendre, à se relever et à devenir responsable de sa propre vie.
Et lorsque les parents ne seront plus là , qui apprendra à l'enfant qu'ils ont empêché de grandir à devenir enfin un adulte ?
Un livre pour les parents, pour les enfants devenus adultes et pour tous ceux qui veulent aimer sans posséder, protéger sans étouffer et transmettre sans enfermer.
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