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Publisher: Clementine Boye
Pages: 154
Weight: 0.47
Height: 0.33 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
You know what's in the fridge. You know which words set him off. You know how long you can leave your little brother in a room before something happens.
Nobody sat you down and gave you the job. It arrived one task at a time, over years, and there was never a day when anybody counted the total.
If you cook, translate, mind the little ones, read the letters, ring the doctor, manage the moods, or keep the peace at home - this book is for you. Not for the version of you that copes, which everybody has already met. The actual one.
It will not tell you to stop, because you are not doing this by mistake. It will not tell you that you are amazing and inspirational, because being called mature for your age is usually the sound of an adult closing a door.
What it does instead is four things: names the work, counts what it costs, finds the parts that can be handed back, and protects one hour a week that belongs to you.
Inside:
- How to count what you actually do at home, in hours, on one page - the number that answers the permanent question of whether you're making a fuss
- The exact words for telling one adult, and an honest account of what happens afterwards - including the part about being taken away, answered straight
- How to hand back one task without starting a row, and why one thing matters more than the hour it returns
- Why the hour that's yours is not self-care, and how to defend it out loud
- School, the little ones, siblings who carry it too, friends who don't get it, and what to say when someone calls you mature for your age
- Money, forms, appointments and the brown envelopes - including the question that gets young people help: Is there anything for me?
- The feelings nobody prints: resentment, relief, boredom, and the thought about it being over
- A page called Twelve Things Other People Should Understand, written to be photographed and sent to a teacher
- A chapter on where heavy becomes unsafe, with the markers written plainly and no softening
Written for readers of about thirteen and up. No studies, no statistics, no borrowed anecdotes about real young people. The author states on the copyright page that she holds no clinical, medical, legal or social work qualification, and the book says clearly and more than once where it stops and an adult has to start.
There is a page at the back with the words to use when you can't find your own, and a chapter on exactly what to type into a search engine to find out what help exists where you live.
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