Sign-In
Cart
The Year of Grace: A Larger-Than-Life Father, a Pain-In-the-Ass Daughter, and Their Transformative Journey Through Dementia
Paperback
Biographies GeneralAging & Elder CareAlzheimer's & Dementia
Publisher: Lesharkat Publishing
Published: Apr 6 2023
Pages: 248
Weight: 0.74
Height: 0.67 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
How can one daughter mend fences with her father through dementia?
Harriet Boorhem's relationship with her dad had been tenuous at best, and non-existent at worst. Fraught with anger, longing, misunderstanding, and disapproval, her feelings remained conflicted and raw for years. She preferred to love him from afar rather than deal with the complications of loving him up close.
Then Harriet got a call that she needed to join her siblings and get into the rotation of taking care of Daddy-with-dementia.
She decided two things.
First, Harriet would ask him everything she ever wanted to know but was afraid to ask. After all, he had dementia and wouldn't remember.
And second, she would let him eat and do whatever he wanted whenever he wanted as long as it didn't kill him. Ding Dongs for breakfast? Great. Chase the imaginary cat around the yard? Sure. Cake for dinner? Great idea.
She realized her father didn't have that much time left. If she was ever going to mend their relationship, now was the time.
She had to put on her big-girl panties and face her demons. And his.
Thus began a year of sacred conversations, painful moments, and hilarious adventures for Harriet and the Boorhem siblings. From the tragedy emerged a profound opportunity for Harriet to mend fences, love in new ways, and dig deep into her inner strength.
Now Harriet is ready to tell the story.
In honor of the tenth anniversary of her dad's death, The Year of Grace chronicles the last years of his life. It's also the story of Harriet's transformation by walking alongside him.
The Year of Grace is a memoir of Facebook posts for family and friends who want to remember the outrageous personality of Crusher Bill. Chock-full of the Boorhem flair for the cuss word, it's a testimony that although the outcome of caring for a parent with dementia is tragic, the journey can be instrumental. Caring for their father brought the Boorhem siblings much closer together. Harriet wouldn't have traded it for the world.
So step into the Boorhem fold. Get ready for a journey that's funny, imperfect, sad, and raucous. You can count on a rollicking good time and some tears.
Welcome to the Year of Grace.
A perfect gift for people who want an honest, unfiltered look at a family coping with dementia.
Also in
Aging & Elder Care
When Memory Fades: What to Expect at Every Stage, from Early Signs to Full Support for Alzheimer's and Dementia
Chin, Nathaniel
Hardcover
Making the Best of What's Left: When We're Too Old to Get the Chairs Reupholstered
Viorst, Judith
Hardcover
Independence for Life: The Complete Guide to Building Strength and Regaining Mobility Beyond 50
Harlow, Will
Paperback
From Strength to Strength: Finding Success, Happiness, and Deep Purpose in the Second Half of Life
Brooks, Arthur C.
Hardcover
The Dementia Care Toolkit: Real Help for Challenging Behaviors and Caregiving Overwhelm
Edmonds, Natali N.
Paperback
Mayo Clinic on Alzheimer's Disease and Other Dementias, Revised and Updated: A Guide for People with Dementia and Those Who Care for Them
Lunde, Angela
Graff-Radford, Jonathan
Hardcover
The Miracle Morning After 50: A Proven Path to Joy, Vitality, and Purpose for Aging Adults
Elrod, Hal
Clark, Dwayne J.
Paperback
Longevity Guidebook: How to Slow, Stop, and Reverse Aging - and NOT Die from Something Stupid
Diamandis, Peter H.
Hardcover
Thriving Beyond Fifty (Expanded Edition): 111 Natural Strategies to Restore Your Mobility, Avoid Surgery and Stay Off Pain Pills for Good
Harlow, Will, Msc McSp
Paperback
Stress-Free Potty Training: A Commonsense Guide to Finding the Right Approach for Your Child
Au, Sara
Stavinoha Ph. D., Peter
Paperback
Chicken Soup for the Soul: Care for the Caregiver: 101 Stories of Advice and Humor for Dementia Care
Newmark, Amy
Paperback
Keep the Memories, Lose the Stuff: Declutter, Downsize, and Move Forward with Your Life
Paxton, Matt
Paperback
Aging Out: An Exploration of Caregiving, Community, and How Americans Grow Old (Large Print Edition)
Schiller, Lucy
Hardcover
Forget Me Not: The #1 Alzheimer's and Dementia Guide for Professional and Family Caregivers
Kostiw, Debra
Paperback
It's Never Too Late to Begin Again: Discovering Creativity and Meaning at Midlife and Beyond
Cameron, Julia
Lively, Emma
Paperback
How to Retire Happy, Fourth Edition: The 12 Most Important Decisions You Must Make Before You Retire
Hinden, Stan
Paperback
Through the Years: More Activities for Memory-Challenged Adults and Their Caregivers
Beloff, Joan
Green, Cynthia R.
Paperback
When Caregiving Calls: Guidance as You Care for a Parent, Spouse, or Aging Relative
Blight, Aaron
Paperback
Information My Family Needs to Know Organizer: Legacy Planner for Personal, Medical & Financial Affairs 4 Document Pockets Spiral Bound Gift for Adult
New Seasons
Publications International Ltd
Paperback
Aba/AARP Checklist for My Family: A Guide to My History, Financial Plans, and Final Wishes, Second Edition
Hurme, Sally Balch
Paperback
The Essential Questions: Interview Your Family to Uncover Stories and Bridge Generations
Keating, Elizabeth, PH. D.
Hardcover
Retirement and Its Discontents: Why We Won't Stop Working, Even If We Can
Silver, Michelle Pannor
Paperback
My Last Gift: An Essential End-Of-Life Planner: Important Guidance for You and Your Loved Ones
Boyer, Kim
Hardcover
The Conscious Caregiver: A Mindful Approach to Caring for Your Loved One Without Losing Yourself
Abbit, Linda
Paperback
The Astonishing Lives of Older Women: How to Create Pleasure Over Peril in Peak Longevity
Welsh, Moira
Paperback
Driving Miss Norma: An Inspirational Story about What Really Matters at the End of Life
Bauerschmidt, Tim
Liddle, Ramie
Paperback
Travelers to Unimaginable Lands: Stories of Dementia, the Caregiver, and the Human Brain
Kiper, Dasha
Paperback
The Legacy Life: Leading Your Family to Make a Difference for Eternity
Green, David
High, Bill
Hardcover
Forget Me Not: The #1 Alzheimer's and Dementia Guide for Professional and Family Caregivers
Kostiw, Debra
Hardcover
The Sage's Tao Te Ching, 25th Anniversary Edition: Ancient Advice for the Second Half of Life
Martin, William
Paperback
The Complete Family Guide to Dementia: Everything You Need to Know to Help Your Parent and Yourself
Harrison, Thomas F.
Forester, Brent P.
Paperback
Strength Training for Seniors: Increase Your Balance, Stability, and Stamina to Rewind the Aging Process
Waehner, Paige
Paperback
Diagnosis Dementia: Your Guide for Eldercare Planning and Crisis Management
Smith, Nicole J.
Paperback
Unconditional Love: A Guide to Navigating the Joys and Challenges of Being a Grandparent Today
Isay, Jane
Paperback
The Joy of Chair Yoga for Seniors and Beginners: Lose Weight, Move Freely, Feel More Energetic, and Have Some Laughs!
Dolson, Heather
Paperback
I hear you: Talking and listening to people with Alzheimer's (and other dementias)
Mahakian, Jane
Kuhn, Alyson
Paperback
21 Life Lessons For Teenage Boys: 21 Life Lessons For Teenage Boys: The Most Important Life Lessons I wish I knew When I was a Teen.
Abboud, James
Welch, Ali
Paperback
The Joy of Not Working: A Book for the Retired, Unemployed and Overworked
Zelinski, Ernie J.
Paperback
The Caregiver's Companion: Caring for Your Loved One Medically, Financially and Emotionally While Caring for Yourself
Brent, Carolyn A.
Paperback
Crazy Grandma 2 Grayscale Coloring Book for Adults: Portrait Coloring Book Grandma goes crazy Grandma funny Coloring Book
Publishing, Monsoon
Paperback
The Youngest Bee: A Louisiana Story of Sisterhood, Strength, and Alzheimer's
Evans, Virginia
Paperback
Information My Family Needs to Know (Folder - Simple 1-2-3 Kit)
Publications International Ltd
Paperback
North American Birds Picture Book: Dementia Activities for Seniors (30 Premium Pictures on 70lb Paper With Names) (Large Print Edition)
Melgren, Jacqueline
Paperback
Longevity Guidebook: How to Slow, Stop, and Reverse Aging - and NOT Die from Something Stupid
Diamandis, Peter H.
Paperback
Living with Purpose in a Worn-out Body: Spiritual Encouragement for Older Adults
Buchanan, Missy
Paperback
Reminiscing 1960s America: Memory Lane Picture Book For Seniors with Dementia and Alzheimer's patients. (Large Print Edition)
Melgren, Jacqueline
Paperback
Is It Alzheimer's?: 101 Answers to Your Most Pressing Questions about Memory Loss and Dementia
Rabins, Peter V.
Hardcover
The Sage's Tao Te Ching, 20th Anniversary Edition: Ancient Advice for the Second Half of Life
Martin, William
Paperback
The Healing of a Caregiver: The Road to Acceptance and Recovery From the Loss of a Loved One
Palmer, Patrick
Paperback
Is It Alzheimer's?: 101 Answers to Your Most Pressing Questions about Memory Loss and Dementia
Rabins, Peter V.
Paperback
Farm Life: a Picture Book In Large Print For Adults And Seniors (Large Print Edition)
Thornton, Nevada
Paperback
How to Care for Aging Parents: A One-Stop Resource for All Your Medical, Financial, Housing, and Emotional Issues
Morris, Virginia
Paperback
What's Next in Your Life?: A Spiritual Guide to Retirement and Purposeful Aging
Briggs, James I.
Paperback
Eldercare 101: A Practical Guide to Later Life Planning, Care, and Wellbeing
Saavedra, Mary Jo
Paperback
Who Will Take Care of Me When I'm Old?: Plan Now to Safeguard Your Health and Happiness in Old Age
Loverde, Joy
Paperback
Age In Place At Home: Adapting The Home Environment For All Generations
Traut Caps, David L.
Paperback
Mildred's Mindset: Wisdom from a Woman Centenarian
Kirschenbaum, Mildred
Kirschenbaum, Gayle
Paperback
Grandma Tell me your Story: A Guided Keepsake Journal for your Grandmother to share her Life & her Memories
Rossi, Erika
Vida, Ô. Linda
Paperback
Coping Courageously: A Heart-Centered Guide for Navigating a Loved One's Illness Without Losing Yourself
Chiaramonte, Delia
Paperback
A View from Life's Edge: Discovering What Really Matters with Older Women Across the Globe
Dempsey, Corinne G.
Paperback
The Wisdom of Menopause (4th Edition): Creating Physical and Emotional Health During the Change
Northrup, Christiane
Paperback
Heartwarming Short Stories for Seniors: Relaxing and Uplifting Short Stories for Seniors - Large Print Edition
Vance, Owen R.
Studio, Orvian
Paperback
When Your Aging Parent Needs Help: A Geriatrician's Step-by-Step Guide to Memory Loss, Resistance, Safety Worries, & More
Kernisan, Leslie
Scott, Paula Spencer
Paperback
Day to Day Caregiving for Dementia: A Mayo Clinic Guide for Offering Care and Support
Lunde, Angela M.
Paperback
WHAT THE HELL DO I DO NOW? A Professionals' Guide to a Meaningful Retirement
White, R. Dean
Paperback
With Love: A Practical Guide to Caring for Aging Parents Through the End of Life
Hofer, Shari
Kazmi, Shabnam
Paperback
Love, Dignity, and Parkinson's: from Care Partner to Caregiver (Large Print Edition)
Pease, Terri
Paperback
The Happy Retirement Bucket List Guidebook: Create the Life You Love, Stay Active and Engaged, Discover New Passions and Joys
Press, Sage Lifestyle
Hardcover
The Wall Street Journal. Complete Retirement Guidebook: How to Plan It, Live It and Enjoy It
Ruffenach, Glenn
Greene, Kelly
Paperback
Inheritance Heists: Reclaim Your Family's Legacy and Fight Back Against Financial Predators
Hackard, Michael
Paperback
Making Peace with Dementia: An Occupational Therapist's Formula for Optimizing Care and Restoring Calm
Olson, Ann
Paperback
Chasing Independence: Growing Old in the Shadow of an American Ideal
Altomonte, Guillermina
Paperback
Older & Wiser: Stories of Inspiration, Humor, and Wisdom about Life at a Certain Age (Large Print Edition)
Canfield, Jack
Hansen, Mark Victor
Newmark, Amy
Paperback
Beyond Bedrails and Bingo: Myths, Truths, and the Future of America's Nursing Homes
Devereaux, Dave
Paperback