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Triggered?...Stressed?: No honey, it's you
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ISBN13: 9798196256325
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: May 9 2026
Pages: 100
Weight: 0.32
Height: 0.21 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: May 9 2026
Pages: 100
Weight: 0.32
Height: 0.21 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Triggered...? Stressed...? No Honey...It's You is not a self-help book. Self-help books have sunrise covers and gentle affirmations and some person on the back flap smiling like they just discovered kale cures everything. This is not that. This is the book that sits down across from you, orders something strong, and tells you what nobody in your life has been willing to say out loud. Most of the stress you're carrying around every day is homemade. Not imported. Homemade. Crafted in the private laboratory inside your skull where half-baked assumptions, ancient emotional injuries, and fifteen-year-old insecurities have been fermenting together while you blamed traffic.
Mitchell Kirby has spent decades watching people light their own buildings on fire and then scream about the flames. In this book he finally flips on the lights inside the factory that never closes, the one manufacturing interpretations and emotional explosions faster than any human being can keep up with. The triggers that blow your day apart? Your wiring. The junk drawer full of emotional debris that somehow always ends up in the middle of your current argument? You packed it. The stress that keeps showing up in every job, every relationship, every city you tried moving to for a fresh start? It followed you because it lives in the one location you've been refusing to look.
This book does not let you off the hook and it does not pretend that's kindness. It walks through the comparison engine destroying your peace, the main character delusion running your relationships, the emotional courtroom where your feelings are acting as lawyers with no law degree and a serious axe to grind, and the grudge economy you've been funding out of your own quality of life for years. It lands the uncomfortable diagnosis with the delivery of someone who has earned the right to say it because he's already lived through every chapter.
If you're ready to stop rearranging the furniture of the external world while the smoke alarm screams inside your own head, this is the book. If you're not ready, it's still the book. You'll just argue with it for the first few chapters before you recognize yourself in the story.
This book does not let you off the hook and it does not pretend that's kindness. It walks through the comparison engine destroying your peace, the main character delusion running your relationships, the emotional courtroom where your feelings are acting as lawyers with no law degree and a serious axe to grind, and the grudge economy you've been funding out of your own quality of life for years. It lands the uncomfortable diagnosis with the delivery of someone who has earned the right to say it because he's already lived through every chapter.
If you're ready to stop rearranging the furniture of the external world while the smoke alarm screams inside your own head, this is the book. If you're not ready, it's still the book. You'll just argue with it for the first few chapters before you recognize yourself in the story.
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