A cadeira do lado: Leituras breves de companhia para o luto e a viuvez Leituras em letra grande para quem perdeu o companheiro ou a companheira de uma
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Publisher: Independently Published
Pages: 210
Weight: 0.57
Height: 0.53 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: Spanish
+++ Um livro que já acompanhou mais de 50.000 pessoas +++
A casa soa diferente. E você continua cá, com todo esse amor e sem morada para onde o levar.
Este livro não dá conselhos e não marca prazos. Não fala de fases, não diz que o tempo cura tudo e nunca lhe pede que vire a página. Faz companhia - como quem se senta ao seu lado num banco e não diz nada, mas está.
Ao longo de 62 leituras breves, de uma ou duas páginas cada e em letra grande, o livro fala sobre aquilo que realmente acontece nos primeiros meses e nos anos seguintes à perda de quem partilhou a vida consigo.
O silêncio novo da casa. O lado dele na cama. A cadeira vazia. O armário. Os óculos na mesa de cabeceira. A roupa que ainda cheira a alguém. O primeiro aniversário. O aniversário da morte. As pessoas que não sabem o que dizer. As visitas que cansam. Falar em voz alta com quem já não está. E voltar a rir sem culpa.
As 62 leituras estão organizadas em seis partes:
- Os primeiros tempos
- A casa
- As coisas dele
- Os dias marcados
- As pessoas
- Continuar
Cada leitura termina com uma permissão, nunca com uma tarefa. Às vezes, a permissão para fazer alguma coisa. Outras vezes, a permissão para não a fazer - e essa costuma ser precisamente a que mais falta faz.
O livro foi escrito para ser lido como o luto é vivido: devagar, sem ordem obrigatória, nos dias melhores e nos dias mais difÃceis. Pode abrir onde quiser, voltar à mesma leitura muitas vezes e fechar quando já chega por hoje.
Não pressupõe nada: nem fé, nem filhos, nem casamento no papel, nem um determinado paÃs. Quando toca na fé, ambas as portas ficam abertas com o mesmo respeito.
Inclui também uma página serena e direta sobre quando pode ser importante falar com um médico, sem alarmismo e sem transformar a tristeza numa doença.
No final, algumas páginas são dirigidas aos filhos, netos e amigos:
- Como acompanhar sem meter pressa
- O que é melhor não dizer
- Como continuar presente quando as primeiras semanas já passaram
- Porque uma terça-feira qualquer do segundo ano pode valer mais do que dez visitas na primeira semana
Ideal para:
- Quem perdeu o marido, a mulher ou o companheiro de uma vida
- Quem ficou a aprender a viver numa casa que agora soa diferente
- Filhos, netos e amigos que procuram uma forma delicada de acompanhar
- Um presente de condolências quando faltam as palavras
Não é preciso ultrapassar nada hoje. Às vezes basta ter algumas palavras por perto e saber que ninguém está a pedir que tenha pressa.
Aviso importante: este livro oferece companhia, não tratamento, e não substitui o apoio de qualquer profissional.
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