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Same Soft Skin: A Woman's Guide to Exploring Desire with Women
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Series: Rebecca's, Book 4
Women's HealthGLBTQIA StudiesSexuality
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ISBN13: 9798173642639
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Sep 12 2026
Pages: 230
Weight: 0.69
Height: 0.48 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Sep 12 2026
Pages: 230
Weight: 0.69
Height: 0.48 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
You have noticed it.
A second glance. A private fantasy. A heat that does not match the life you were told to want. *Same Soft Skin* is a clear, intimate guide for women who are beginning to explore desire for other women. With honesty and care, Rebecca Lang walks you through the private work of recognising what you feel, the conversations that matter, the first physical steps, and the deeper emotional territory that can follow. This is not a book that demands a new identity.
A second glance. A private fantasy. A heat that does not match the life you were told to want. *Same Soft Skin* is a clear, intimate guide for women who are beginning to explore desire for other women. With honesty and care, Rebecca Lang walks you through the private work of recognising what you feel, the conversations that matter, the first physical steps, and the deeper emotional territory that can follow. This is not a book that demands a new identity.
It is a book that offers language, practical guidance, and permission to move at your own pace - whether you are only curious, already acting, or somewhere in between. Inside you will find:
- How to map your own arousal without shame
- How to talk to yourself, a partner, or a friend
- What often feels different about intimacy between women
- Clear, explicit guidance on early sexual exploration
- How to handle intensity, attachment, and the day after
- Permission to continue - or to stop - without failure Sexy where it needs to be. Steady where it counts.
Written for women who want the truth of their own desire without the noise.
- How to map your own arousal without shame
- How to talk to yourself, a partner, or a friend
- What often feels different about intimacy between women
- Clear, explicit guidance on early sexual exploration
- How to handle intensity, attachment, and the day after
- Permission to continue - or to stop - without failure Sexy where it needs to be. Steady where it counts.
Written for women who want the truth of their own desire without the noise.
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