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Antes de Adotar: Vinte Perguntas DifÃceis Sobre Trauma, Apego, Identidade e o Trabalho de uma Vida Inteira para Construir uma FamÃlia
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Publisher: Independently Published
Pages: 138
Weight: 0.43
Height: 0.32 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: Portuguese
E se o amor for indispensável - mas não for suficiente?
Adotar uma criança pode ser uma das decisões mais significativas da vida. Mas entre o desejo de formar uma famÃlia, a preparação do quarto, os documentos e a expectativa pelo encontro existe uma realidade sobre a qual pouco se fala.
Você está preparado não apenas para adotar, mas para permanecer quando a realidade for diferente daquela que imaginou?
Em Antes de Adotar, Rodrigo Eustáquio apresenta vinte perguntas difÃceis que todo pretendente à adoção deveria considerar antes de uma criança chegar à sua casa.
Com uma abordagem informada pelo trauma e fundamentada em conceitos de desenvolvimento infantil, apego, regulação emocional e dinâmica familiar, o livro examina questões que frequentemente ficam escondidas atrás das narrativas romantizadas sobre adoção.
Você compreenderá por que uma criança pode rejeitar justamente quem tenta amá-la, por que idade cronológica e maturidade emocional nem sempre caminham juntas, como experiências anteriores podem influenciar comportamento e confiança e por que construir um vÃnculo pode exigir muito mais tempo do que os adultos esperavam.
Este não é um livro contra a adoção. É um livro contra a adoção despreparada.
Ao longo dos vinte capÃtulos, você encontrará reflexões sobre:
- trauma, apego e desenvolvimento emocional;
- luta, fuga, congelamento e apaziguamento;
- limites, disciplina e parentalidade informada pelo trauma;
- construção gradual do vÃnculo entre pais e filhos;
- luto, pertencimento e famÃlia de origem;
- identidade da criança adotada ao longo do desenvolvimento;
- desafios na escola e necessidade de defesa dos interesses da criança;
- impacto da adoção sobre casamento, rotina, vida social e finanças;
- importância de uma rede de apoio adequada;
- e a compreensão da adoção como um compromisso para toda a vida.
O livro inclui ainda um Inventário de Prontidão com 20 perguntas, um Mapa de Apoio para o Primeiro Ano e questões práticas para considerar antes de uma possÃvel colocação.
Para Rodrigo Eustáquio, esse tema também é profundamente pessoal. Seu pai e sua tia foram adotados. Sem aquelas adoções na geração anterior, a sequência de acontecimentos que tornou possÃvel sua própria existência talvez tivesse sido completamente diferente.
É justamente dessa relação entre gratidão e realidade que nasce este livro.
A adoção pode representar amor, pertencimento e transformação. Mas ela também nasce de uma história anterior que merece ser reconhecida e respeitada.
Antes de Adotar não promete respostas fáceis.
Ele convida você a fazer as perguntas difÃceis antes de assumir um dos compromissos mais importantes da sua vida.
Porque o amor pode iniciar essa jornada.
Mas é a preparação que ajuda você a permanecer nela.
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