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The Penthouse Tutor: What China's Wealthiest Parents Can't Buy
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ISBN13: 9798186265177
Publisher: Independently Published
Pages: 250
Weight: 0.75
Height: 0.57 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Publisher: Independently Published
Pages: 250
Weight: 0.75
Height: 0.57 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
When money can buy the best schools, the best tutors, and the best of everything-why can it still not buy a childhood that doesn't hurt?
For nine years, K. J. Lin worked as an education consultant in the penthouses of Shenzhen Bay-the epicenter of China's new wealth. Her clients were tech founders, logistics magnates, and first-generation millionaires who had rebuilt their entire lives around their children's success. But from her seat across the kitchen table-close enough to hear what the children whispered when they thought no one was listening-Lin watched the most resourced families in China raise the most emotionally deprived children.
For nine years, K. J. Lin worked as an education consultant in the penthouses of Shenzhen Bay-the epicenter of China's new wealth. Her clients were tech founders, logistics magnates, and first-generation millionaires who had rebuilt their entire lives around their children's success. But from her seat across the kitchen table-close enough to hear what the children whispered when they thought no one was listening-Lin watched the most resourced families in China raise the most emotionally deprived children.
She met a four-year-old who washed his own face midlesson because he'd been trained to never cry. A five-year-old whose first words about his future were I want to jump off a building. A twelve-year-old who could no longer speak to her own mother without a go-between. And a boy in an American dormitory who wouldn't look at his father-only at the man's shoes.
Part memoir, part investigation, The Penthouse Tutor is an extraordinary account of what happens when childhood is optimized to the point of extinction. With the observational precision of Primates of Park Avenue and the emotional depth of Educated, Kuilin J. Lin exposes an arms race that stretches far beyond China-and arrives at a conclusion so simple it is radical. The most powerful thing a parent can give a child is not a curriculum, a credential, or a plan. It is half an hour of undivided attention.
Part memoir, part investigation, The Penthouse Tutor is an extraordinary account of what happens when childhood is optimized to the point of extinction. With the observational precision of Primates of Park Avenue and the emotional depth of Educated, Kuilin J. Lin exposes an arms race that stretches far beyond China-and arrives at a conclusion so simple it is radical. The most powerful thing a parent can give a child is not a curriculum, a credential, or a plan. It is half an hour of undivided attention.
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