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Parenting The RAD Teen: A Trauma-Informed Guide to Reactive Attachment Disorder in Adolescence
Paperback
General ParentingPregnancy & Adoption
ISBN13: 9781764633130
Publisher: Jstone Publishing
Published: Apr 5 2026
Pages: 226
Weight: 0.68
Height: 0.48 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
The parenting book nobody wanted to need.
If you are raising a teenager with Reactive Attachment Disorder or significant attachment disruption, you already know that the standard advice does not work. The sticker charts failed. The consequence systems made things worse. The therapist who sees a charming, cooperative teen in the office has never witnessed the three-hour rage that started because you asked about homework. Your friends stopped calling. Your family thinks you are exaggerating. And you are running on fumes, wondering if anything you do will ever be enough.
This book was written for that moment.
Parenting the Armored Teen is the first book to focus exclusively on Reactive Attachment Disorder in adolescence, the developmental stage where early attachment trauma collides with puberty, peer pressure, and approaching legal adulthood to create a family crisis unlike anything the parenting manuals prepared you for. Written by a registered mental health practitioner with over a decade of clinical experience, this book combines attachment science, polyvagal theory, and real-world strategies into a guide that meets you where you actually are: exhausted, scared, and looking for something that works.
Inside, you will find:
Practical, day-by-day strategies for building trust with a teen whose brain was wired to resist it. The PACE framework (Playfulness, Acceptance, Curiosity, Empathy) adapted specifically for adolescents. Scripts for de-escalation, school advocacy, and communication that actually reaches an armored heart. A clear decision framework for residential treatment. Honest guidance on medication, CPS investigations, and working with professionals who do not understand your child. Tools for protecting your marriage, supporting your other children, and recovering from the caregiver trauma that nobody talks about.
What makes this book different?
This is not a book of gentle platitudes. It is a direct, honest, clinically grounded guide that acknowledges the terror of parenting a RAD teen without minimizing it or pretending there are easy answers. It includes fillable safety plans, therapist vetting checklists, IEP accommodation templates, medication tracking logs, and documentation systems designed to protect your family. Every chapter opens with a real composite story, teaches practical principles, and ends with action steps you can try today.
For adoptive parents, foster parents, kinship caregivers, and biological families where early trauma is now manifesting as adolescent crisis. Also a valuable resource for therapists, social workers, and educators who work with attachment-disrupted teens and the families who love them.
Your teen built their armor before they knew you. This book helps you reach the person underneath.
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