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Mothercare: On Obligation, Love, Death, and Ambivalence
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ISBN10: 159376717X
ISBN13: 9781593767174
Publisher: Soft Skull
Published: Aug 2 2022
Pages: 176
Weight: 0.71
Height: 0.72 Width: 5.81 Depth: 8.51
Language: English
ISBN13: 9781593767174
Publisher: Soft Skull
Published: Aug 2 2022
Pages: 176
Weight: 0.71
Height: 0.72 Width: 5.81 Depth: 8.51
Language: English
Masterfully-wrought . . . [A] stunning story of caregiving, with its questions of obligation and ethics and what it means to care for someone who, perhaps, didn't care for you. --The Boston Globe From the brilliantly original novelist and cultural critic Lynne Tillman comes MOTHERCARE, an honest and beautifully written account of a sudden, drastically changed relationship to one's mother, and of the time and labor spent navigating the American healthcare system. When a mother's unusual health condition, normal pressure hydrocephalus, renders her entirely dependent on you, your sisters, caregivers, and companions, the unthinkable becomes daily life. In MOTHERCARE, Tillman describes doing what seems impossible: handling her mother as if she were a child and coping with a longtime ambivalence toward her. In Tillman's celebrated style and as a rich noticer of strange things (Colm TóibÃn), she describes, without flinching, the unexpected, heartbreaking, and anxious eleven years of caring for a sick parent. MOTHERCARE is both a cautionary tale and sympathetic guidance for anyone who suddenly becomes a caregiver. This story may be helpful, informative, consoling, or upsetting, but it never fails to underscore how impossible it is to get the job done completely right.
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