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Forgive the Ref: How Revenge Science Can Save Youth Sports
Paperback
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Nov 2 2025
Pages: 122
Weight: 0.38
Height: 0.26 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
It's Not Anger. It's Revenge. And It's Ruining Youth Sports.
With a title like Forgive The Ref, you might think this book is about coddling sports officials - referees, umpires, and judges. If you did, you would be wrong. This book is about helping coaches, fans, players, and parents.
In Forgive The Ref, Cris Maloney's breakthrough book, Maloney exposes the single, underlying problem fueling chaos at youth games: the drive for revenge after a perceived bad call. Traditional anger management fails because it misses the target. Maloney provides a precise, actionable method to disrupt the biological response of revenge. While others focus on anger, Forgive The Ref readers learn exactly how to disengage the primal urge for revenge and immediately shift their focus to the future-leading to fewer penalties, more wins, and healthier games for everyone.
Great for individuals, schools, leagues, and national governing bodies---any person or organization dealing with these issues.
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