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Complete Marriage: Coequal Hierarchy
Paperback
Publisher Price: $9.95
ISBN13: 9781966741107
Publisher: Life Over Coffee
Published: Sep 20 2025
Pages: 98
Weight: 0.27
Height: 0.20 Width: 5.50 Depth: 8.50
Language: English
Most couples want a better marriage, but many settle for partial solutions-improved communication, fewer arguments, or shared routines-without addressing what truly completes a marriage. Complete Marriage invites husbands and wives to pursue something deeper and far more durable: a Christ-centered, gospel-shaped union that reflects God's design for oneness.
This book begins with a clarifying conviction: marriage is not primarily about happiness, compatibility, or self-fulfillment. It is about worship. What governs the hearts of a husband and wife will ultimately govern their marriage. When Christ is not the center, something else will be-expectations, control, comfort, or unmet desires-and incompleteness will follow.
Rick Thomas frames marriage as a lifelong discipleship relationship, where two imperfect people learn to live as one under God's authority. A complete marriage is not a problem-free marriage. It is a marriage where sin is addressed honestly, grace is practiced consistently, and growth is pursued intentionally. Completeness comes through alignment with God's purposes, not the elimination of struggle.
Throughout the book, Thomas exposes the subtle ways couples drift from biblical oneness. Independence replaces interdependence. Blame replaces responsibility. Performance replaces grace. Over time, spouses can live together while remaining spiritually and emotionally distant. Complete Marriage calls couples back to shared faith, shared responsibility, and shared pursuit of Christ.
The book gives particular attention to roles and leadership within marriage-not as power dynamics, but as expressions of sacrificial love and service. Husbands are called to lead with humility, initiative, and tenderness. Wives are encouraged to respond with strength, wisdom, and gospel confidence. Both are summoned to repentance, forgiveness, and mutual care.
Rather than offering formulas or techniques, Complete Marriage trains couples to think biblically about conflict, expectations, intimacy, and sanctification. Readers are guided to examine how desires become demands and how demands fracture unity. The gospel is consistently applied as the means by which hearts soften, trust grows, and oneness deepens.
This book is well suited for couples at any stage-newly married, long married, struggling, or stable but drifting. It also serves counselors, pastors, and disciplers who want a concise, theologically grounded resource for marriage care. Reflection questions and practical applications encourage slow, honest conversations rather than quick fixes.
Complete Marriage does not promise perfection. It promises direction. When Christ governs the marriage, growth replaces stagnation, hope replaces cynicism, and unity becomes possible even in hardship. A complete marriage is not one where everything goes right, but one where everything is brought under Christ.
Life Over Coffee Publishers
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