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    3038 Hennepin Ave Minneapolis, MN
    612-822-4611

Open Daily: 10am - 10pm | Alley-side Pickup: 10am - 7pm
3038 Hennepin Ave Minneapolis, MN
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Caring for Aging Parents: A Practical Guide for Adult Children Navigating Health, Safety, Legal, Financial, and Emotional Decisions With Love

Caring for Aging Parents: A Practical Guide for Adult Children Navigating Health, Safety, Legal, Financial, and Emotional Decisions With Love

Cole, Wrenna

Paperback

Aging & Elder CareHealth General

ISBN13: 9798171815752
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Sep 4 2026
Pages: 212
Weight: 0.64
Height: 0.45 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Nobody teaches you how to become your parent's parent. One day you are their child - calling on Sundays, visiting at holidays, leaning on them the way you always have. The next day you are the one managing the medications, driving to the appointments, worrying about the falls, and trying to figure out what assisted living actually costs and how anyone is supposed to afford it. The shift happens gradually, then suddenly. A fall. A diagnosis. A phone call from a neighbor. A moment when you realize that the person who spent decades taking care of you now needs you to take care of them. And nobody told you this was coming, or what to do when it did. This guide was written for that moment - and for every moment that follows. What's Inside: 15 chapters covering the full arc of caring for an aging parent, plus quick-reference guides and a complete resource directory. Reading the signs - the subtle changes that indicate something is different, what to watch for, and how to approach the conversation before it becomes a crisis. The conversation you keep putting off - how to talk about legal documents, housing preferences, driving, and end-of-life wishes before they are urgent, and what to do when your parent refuses to engage. Legal and financial foundations - power of attorney, healthcare proxy, advance directives, long-term care insurance, Medicare versus Medicaid, and the financial picture you need to understand now. Medication management - how to organize medications safely, which medications are particularly risky in older adults, and how to handle refusal. Doctor appointments - how to prepare, what to ask, how to advocate for your parent in the healthcare system, and when to get a second opinion. Home safety room-by-room - fall prevention, bathroom modifications, kitchen safety, wandering prevention, and medical alert devices. Driving - when to be concerned, how to have the conversation, and what to do when your parent refuses to stop. Nutrition and eating challenges. Mental health - depression, anxiety, and loneliness in older adults, and why each is more common and more serious than most families recognize. When your parent needs more help - the full spectrum from in-home care through adult day programs, assisted living, memory care, and skilled nursing, with guidance on how to choose. Navigating siblings - why caregiving is almost never equally shared and what to do about it. Long-distance caregiving - building a local network, maximizing visits, and recognizing when the arrangement is no longer adequate. Paying for care - what care actually costs, what Medicare does and does not cover, and how families manage the financial reality. Taking care of yourself - the documented health risks of caregiving, what actually helps, and why your own wellbeing is a caregiving resource. End of life - palliative care, hospice, what dying from chronic illness actually looks like, and how to be present. Also includes: a When to Call the Doctor symptom guide, a room-by-room Home Safety Checklist, Questions to Ask at Every Medical Appointment, and a complete Resource Directory with national helplines and local service finders. Written in plain language for real families - not medical professionals. Practical, honest, and grounded in the reality of what caring for an aging parent actually asks of you.

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