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A Family, Maybe
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General ParentingPregnancy & Adoption
Publisher Price: $22.95
Publisher: Ophel Press
Published: Sep 1 2026
Pages: 312
Weight: 0.80
Height: 0.70 Width: 5.50 Depth: 8.50
Language: English
In his candid and emotional memoir, Lane Igoudin shows the human side of public adoption as he and his partner Jonathan seek to adopt their foster daughters from the Los Angeles County child welfare system. Desperately wanting to be fathers, they enter into a complicated legal process that soon becomes a tangle of drama-filled birth parent visits and children's court hearings. Lane and Jon spend years not knowing whether they will be able to officially adopt the girls, or if the county will reunite the sisters with their birth mother, a teenager in the state's custody herself.
The stress of the foster-to-adopt process, compounded with the mounting, nationwide struggle for LGBTQ+ equality, erodes the sense of peace in Lane and Jon's home. Still, the girls attach themselves deeply to their adoptive parents, while their dads do all they can to give them the best lives possible. Heartwarming moments with the kids and relatable first-time-parent woes become bittersweet as Lane realizes how much he and Jon have built-and how much they could lose.
A Family, Maybe is a moving and critically-acclaimed story about dedication, heartache, and love.
The Revised Edition includes a new foreword by Rita L. Soronen, President & CEO, Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption.
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