What Would YOU Do?, Learning to Pause, Feel, and Choose: Big Feelings at School
Paperback
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Feb 10 2026
Pages: 38
Weight: 0.25
Height: 0.10 Width: 8.50 Depth: 8.50
Language: English
Through calm language and warm illustrations, children are guided through a simple, repeatable process:
Feel - what's happening inside their body and mind
Choose - a kind, respectful action
From feeling left out on the playground to waiting in line or sharing with others, this book meets children where they are - without judgment - and shows them they don't have to react right away. They can pause, notice, and choose.
Designed especially for children ages 4-8, this book supports:
- Emotional awareness
- Self-regulation and impulse control
- Empathy and kindness
- Problem-solving at school and with peers
Whether read at home, in the classroom, or in therapeutic settings, What Would YOU Do? gives children a foundation for handling big feelings with confidence and care.
This is the first book in a gentle, skill-building series focused on growing emotional awareness in children.
Educators & Therapists Note
This book aligns naturally with SEL frameworks and is suitable for:
- Social-emotional learning lessons
- Classroom discussions and circle time
- School counseling sessions
- Occupational therapy and emotional support programs
- Calm-down spaces and reflection activities
The simple Pause-Feel-Choose structure gives adults and children shared language that can be reinforced across settings.
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