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Publisher: Independently Published
Pages: 364
Weight: 1.07
Height: 0.75 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
What if love was never meant to be shapeless?
In a culture filled with blurred lines, emotional exhaustion, over-functioning, enabling, confusion, and burnout, many people are discovering a painful truth: sincere love can still become unhealthy. Warmth without clarity can quietly weaken marriages, friendships, families, churches, and ministry leadership.
In The Shape of Love, Henry and Pam Reyenga explore a powerful biblical reality: love has a shape-and that shape includes healthy boundaries.
This book offers a deeply Christian and practical framework for understanding how mature love protects truth, peace, responsibility, integrity, and relationships. Rather than promoting coldness or selfishness, the authors show how Christ-centered boundaries help believers move from fear-driven relationships to Spirit-formed strength.
Through Scripture, real-life ministry insight, reflection questions, practical scripts, and the Organic Human Boundary Map, readers will learn how to:
- Set boundaries without losing compassion
- Love people without enabling dysfunction
- Recognize blurred relationship patterns before collapse happens
- Create healthier marriages, families, ministries, and churches
- Speak with warmth and firmness during conflict
- Build trust through clarity instead of control
- Grow in self-control, wisdom, and emotional maturity
Drawing from over forty years of ministry experience, Henry and Pam Reyenga write with honesty, humility, biblical conviction, and hope.
This is not a book about becoming harsh.
It is a book about becoming clear.
Because love does not lose its beauty when it gains boundaries.
It becomes stronger.
Perfect for:
- Christian leaders
- Pastors and chaplains
- Ministry volunteers
- Married couples
- Parents
- Dating relationships
- Church small groups
- Anyone exhausted by unhealthy relational patterns
Love always protects... - 1 Corinthians 13:7
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