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My 3 Husbands: A True Story
Paperback
Publisher Price: $19.99
ISBN13: 9781066669660
Publisher: Joss Publishing
Published: Aug 31 2026
Pages: 316
Weight: 0.93
Height: 0.71 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
It starts with a phone call. It always starts with a phone call.
In an Irish art room, with paint on her hands and children laughing in the corners, Shelley Anne Crawford picks up on the second ring. Her daughter is on the line from London. Her first husband is dead.
My 3 Husbands is the true story of the life that led to that moment - and the life that was built afterwards.
At eighteen, she was signed over in marriage by a father who knew precisely what he was handing her to, in a country where a wife remained a legal minor for life, unable to open a bank account or sign a contract without a man's name beside her own. What followed was twelve years of charm and terror on a farm in the Valley of a Thousand Hills. An escape. A second marriage that broke something that could not be mended. And a third that was tender and true, and not what she believed it was.
Along the way: an African childhood on the edge of the fireline. A grandmother sitting serenely beneath half a roof. A horse called Place of Happiness, given away out of love. A mother who could not save her - and the reason why, which took forty years to understand. Two cancers, one diagnosed on her fortieth birthday. A country that measured her body and sent her away. A loss she is still learning to carry.
And, at a kitchen table in the middle of the night, one line written in a cheap notebook - the question that became her life's work.
This is a memoir about resilience as it is actually lived: not a trait some people are born with, but something assembled slowly out of ordinary days, bad decisions, small acts and stubborn hope. It is unflinching about violence, grief and institutional failure - and it is genuinely funny, often on the same page.
It is also the origin story of the Jess(TM) Resilience-Building Model and the PACT(TM) Trust-Building Strengths Inventory, developed by the author across two decades of coaching and organisational practice to help others thrive, not just survive. Readers who come to those frameworks through her other books will find here where they began. And the story is true.
CAUTIONARY NOTE: Contains material some readers may find distressing, including suicide, domestic abuse and bereavement.
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