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Killing the Fear Monster: Freedom for the Fearful-Avoidant: Heal the fear. Reclaim the connection. Rise with confidence.
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Series: Be the Change: Empowering Global Transformation
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Jun 3 2025
Pages: 88
Weight: 0.28
Height: 0.18 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Killing the Fear Monster: Freedom for the Fearful-Avoidant
✨ Heal the fear. Reclaim the connection. Rise with confidence.
Do you long for love but feel overwhelmed by intimacy? Do you crave connection but sabotage relationships when things get too real? If so, you may carry the traits of a fearful-avoidant attachment style-and you are not alone.
In this empowering guide, Killing the Fear Monster introduces you to the Fear Giver-the inner voice formed by trauma, abandonment, or inconsistent love-and gives you proven tools to quiet it, challenge it, and ultimately heal.
Grounded in CBT, NLP, and attachment theory, this book offers powerful techniques like:
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