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Guilt-Free Selling: God Helped Me For Free... How Dare I Charge For My Services?
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ManagementGeneral Christianity
ISBN13: 9781067438500
Publisher: Barry Spilchuk - You're My Hero Books Ltd.
Published: Apr 10 2026
Pages: 240
Weight: 0.72
Height: 0.55 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Are You Doing What Heavenly Father Has Called You To Do?
Or at least... are you trying to answer His call?
If you're a Christian author, coach, consultant, or creative, you may feel torn between serving faithfully and charging fairly.
You might wonder:
Is it wrong to charge for the gifts God gave me?
Am I taking advantage of those who need help?
Should ministry be free?
If you've ever felt guilt, hesitation, or shame around selling your work, you are not alone.
And you are not wrong to want to be paid.
Guilt-Free Selling helps Christian leaders release the beliefs that keep them small, silent, and financially stuck.
Inside you will learn how to:
- Release fear and false guilt around money
- Value the gifts God entrusted to you
- Charge with confidence and integrity
- Serve others without apology
- Build a sustainable calling that honours God
Because getting paid isn't selfish.
It's stewardship.
When your work supports you, you are free to keep serving.
If you have stayed stuck here far too long...
Step forward.
Serve boldly.
Allow your calling to sustain you.
The Lord our God said to us at Horeb, 'You have stayed at this mountain long enough.'
- Deuteronomy 1:6
Barry is relentlessly encouraging, but never shallow about it. He celebrates readers while holding a mirror up to their self-defeating behaviours. He quotes people calling him out - including being told you're being a jerk - and owns it. He delivers hard truths from a place of love.
He speaks openly about things most people keep private: bankruptcy, two cancer diagnoses, 'almost' divorce, shame, and the fear of asking for money. His mission is to help people - whether they are Christian consultants struggling to charge for their gifts, or entrepreneur's trying to make other peoples' lives better - overcome the mental and emotional blocks that hold them back.
Here's what a few people have to say about Barry...Barry was one of my mentors. I tethered myself to him because he saw me for the woman I was becoming - not for the woman I was! I wanted to see in me... who Barry saw in me! Lisa Nichols - CEO - Featured on: Oprah, Steve Harvey, Dr. Phil, The Today Show Barry was able to speak 'truth to power' and had the guts to tell me to get back to the work I was meant to do! Jack Canfield, Co-creator Chicken Soup for the Soul I love Barry's tone in this book... Intimate, confessional, vivid, rich with dialogue. Practical, direct, story-anchored, warm. Personal and reverent - never preachy. Energetic, coach-like, inside-the-ropes immediacy.
Punchy, question-led, friendly, sometimes funny. Generous, enthusiastic, genuinely warm. Inviting, non-pushy, curious, reflective. Gracious, humble, faith-anchored - never retaliatory.
Victoria Gove Summary of Guilt-Free Selling:
Primary Audience - Christian consultants, coaches, speakers, service entrepreneurs struggling to charge for their gifts.
Tone - Deeply intimate, confessional, spiritually rich, emotionally intense.
Faith Level - High - God, Jesus and Holy Spirit on every few pages; extensive scripture.
Humour Level - Moderate - present but secondary to the emotional weight.
Story Length - Varied. Using multi-layered arcs with real people and high stakes.
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