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Brain and Heart - It's Not Fair: A children's book about big feelings, anger and learning you're not alone
Paperback
Publisher: Moms Library Press
Published: May 29 2026
Pages: 50
Weight: 0.31
Height: 0.13 Width: 8.50 Depth: 8.50
Language: English
When Ruby doesn't get a turn on the swings, her feelings get BIG-fast, hot, and impossible to stop.
She yells. She kicks. It feels like too much.
But then something different happens.
Heart comes close.
Heart stays.
And slowly, without being told what to do, Ruby's body begins to settle.
Not because she fixed it.
Not because she tried harder.
But because she wasn't alone.
Heart and Brain: It's Not Fair is a beautifully simple, emotionally grounded picture book that helps children understand their big feelings-without shame, pressure, or quick fixes.
Instead of teaching kids to calm down, this story shows what really helps: connection, presence, and being seen.
Perfect for:
- children navigating anger, frustration, and it's not fair moments
- parents who want to support emotional regulation without power struggles
- therapists, teachers, and caregivers teaching connection-based regulation
This book helps children learn:
- feelings don't have to go away to feel better
- they don't have to handle big emotions alone
- even when they feel like too much... they are still okay, and still loved
A powerful read-aloud for building emotional safety, connection, and resilience-one page at a time.
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