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The Boneyard Reckoning: Healing the Soul After Relational Devastation: Pride, Power, and the Restoration of the Heart
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AbuseChristian LivingGeneral Christianity
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Sep 9 2026
Pages: 280
Weight: 0.83
Height: 0.59 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
A prophet is set down in a field of scattered bone and asked one question: can these live?
What happens next is not a miracle. It is a sequence. Bones. Sinews. Flesh. Skin. And only then, breath. Structure, connection, substance, boundary, life - in that order, and the order cannot be rearranged.
Most of the damage done in churches, families, and workplaces is not caused by cruelty. It is caused by skipping steps. By asking a person to forgive before she is safe. To reconcile before anything has been repaired. To soften before she has anything to soften behind.
The Boneyard Reckoning names what almost no one defines:
- Relational integrity - the capacity to stay whole under weight, in the structural sense before the moral one.
- Pride - not arrogance, but the refusal to be affected. A doorbell whose wire came loose years ago, in a house where somebody is still home.
- Power - not position, but who holds a key to you, and whether you ever handed it over.
Written by a licensed clinician who left a ministry she loved, this book moves through Ezekiel's valley one stage at a time: what collapsed, who took what, and how a life gets rebuilt in the only order that holds. Each chapter closes with a Clinician's Corner for therapists, counselors, and ministry leaders.
It will not ask you to abandon yourself in the name of restoration. It does not treat reconciliation as the goal. It does not confuse forgiveness with access. And it does not tell you it has been long enough.
Dry doesn't mean it was bad. Dry means nobody came back.
For the one who left and cannot explain why. For the one still inside, quietly doing the math. For anyone who has been told to move on before she had anywhere to stand.
Second edition - substantially revised and expanded, with a new chapter on the systems that make this possible.
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