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As for Me and My House: A Biblical Blueprint for the Marriage, Family, and Home God Always Intended
Paperback
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Jun 30 2026
Pages: 258
Weight: 0.70
Height: 0.64 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
The Family God Designed Is Still the Family God Builds
The pressure on the modern home has never been greater. Marriages are quietly drifting. Parents are watching their children pulled into a culture that contradicts everything they believed they were teaching them. Couples who once loved each other are living parallel lives under the same roof. And families that started with hope are wondering, in honest moments, whether the home they imagined building is even possible anymore.
It is. And the blueprint has not changed.
In As For Me and My House, Pastor Adama Segbedji returns to the foundational truth that God Himself designed the family before culture ever defined it - and that every home built on His design carries an authority, a beauty, and a resilience that no cultural pressure can ultimately defeat. Joshua's ancient declaration in Joshua 24:15 is more than a wall verse. It is a covenant choice every household is invited to make today.
Through twenty scripture-saturated chapters across four parts, this book walks you through the entire architecture of the family God always intended:
- Part One - The Foundation: Discover the theological design of the family, the meaning of covenant, the enemy's specific strategies against your home, and the power of making the Joshua 24:15 declaration over your household
- Part Two - The Marriage Covenant: Honest, scripture-anchored teaching on becoming one flesh, the husband God designed, the wife God honours, intimacy and communication, fighting for your covenant in hard seasons, and affair-proofing your marriage
- Part Three - Raising the Next Generation: The parent's assignment, raising children who know God in a digital age, the praying parent of the prodigal, breaking generational cycles, and leaving a legacy that outlasts your lifetime
- Part Four - The Family Under Pressure: When the storm hits your home, healing the wounded family, the single parent's covenant, blended families and God's grace, and the home as a house of prayer
Every chapter includes reflection questions, scripture-anchored prayer points, and a faith confession to help you not just absorb the teaching but apply it. The book closes with a powerful 30-Day Family Covenant Devotional designed to cement the principles into the daily rhythm of your home, plus a Prayer of Covenant you can pray over your household today.
This is not a book of condemnation about where your family currently is. It is a blueprint for where God intends it to go. The God who designed the family has not given up on yours - and the home you are building, however imperfect or unfinished, can still become a living testimony that the Architect of the family still builds the best ones.
As for you and your house - you can decide. And this book is your blueprint.
About the Author Adama Segbedji is the Founder and Senior Pastor of Solution Chapel International, a multi-cultural commission based in the United Kingdom. With a deep pastoral heart and years of walking real families through real situations, his writing combines scriptural depth with the practical wisdom of a pastor who has sat with couples on the verge of breaking, parents of prodigals, single mothers carrying impossible loads, and homes being rebuilt by the grace of God.
Perfect for readers who enjoyed: scripture-rich Christian marriage and family books, biblical parenting teaching, and books on building a covenant home in a challenging cultural moment.
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