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A Life Goes On
Paperback
Biographies GeneralAging & Elder CareReligion General
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Jun 30 2026
Pages: 86
Weight: 0.28
Height: 0.18 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
At ninety-five, Lois Leiderman Davitz phoned her son at two in the morning to share exciting news: she was flying alone to St. Lucia. His first instinct was to call the police. She couldn't understand the fuss.
Written in the last years of her life, this short, sharp, unexpectedly funny book is a dispatch from a place most of us will reach but few can describe - extreme old age, reported live from the inside. Lois was a writer to the end, and here she turns her eye on her own decline: the great hearing-aid odyssey, the doors checked five times over, the geriatrician's office and the tragedy of the melted chocolate bananas, the grandson gently catching her in a fib about a locked apartment.
But this is more than a memoir. Lois had a second purpose: to tell families, caregivers, and clinicians how to actually get along with us - what the resistance really means, why the same stories get told again and again, how role reversal lands like a blow, and what a person in their nineties most needs to hear. Each chapter pairs her experience with plain, practical strategies you can use today.
Her sons chose to publish it exactly as she wrote it - unedited, repetitions and all - because the point was never a polished book. It was an unfiltered channel into a mind making sense of the twilight, and refusing, right to the end, to be treated as anything less than fully alive.
A Professor of Geriatrics at the Yale School of Medicine called it a book that demonstrates wisdom and insight, encouraging families, friends, caregivers, and clinicians to keep an open mind and keep asking questions.
Funny, defiant, and quietly profound - proof that the person is still very much there, long after we assume they've gone.
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